Why is there a need for Christmas? We know the need for the Cross but why Christmas? Why is there a need for the Christ to be born in a lowly manger, to grow up through infancy, adolescence, teenage and adulthood to reach 30 before He could finally go to the Cross? Why go through all the trouble? Why not just incarnate the Christ at age 30, so that He can start his ministry and then go to the Cross immediately? Why wait 30 years?
I suspect that the very answer to this question is also the answer to why God doesn't just take us up to heaven when we accept Him but allows us to continue here on earth, as difficult as it may be. It seems as if God takes a long time to get anything done. I mean, haven't they been talking about the 2nd coming for the last 2000 years? Sometimes the things we pray for today do not bear fruit until years later. At other times, God persists in allowing us to struggle with a thorn, despite repeated prayers for deliverance. Why?
The answer, I think, is the word called "process". "Process" is defined as "a series of actions, changes, or functions bringing about a result." I hazard a guess that there must be some purpose to the wait, that that purpose is to allow for some form of process so that ultimately, a desired result will emerge. Ultimately, some things just takes time. And when it comes to soul-making, you just cant run away from the process time.
What then is the process? Life has been defined by the Romantic British poet John Keats as the 'vale' (ie. valley) of soul making'. From a Christian standpoint, the soul is the essence of the person, comprising our mind (the way we think), our emotions (the way we feel) and our free will (the ability to be autonomous). The soul is who we are, our personality, our being. In every life, when the Spirit of God breathes the breath of life into our mortal frame, there lights the flame of life which is the soul. From the time of first light, at birth, the soul continues beyond death into eternity. Life then, is the process by which the soul grows and develops and is sanctified. In this process, we move from intellectual immaturity, emotional immaturity, and moral immaturity to intellectual maturity, emotional maturity and moral maturity. The developed and mature soul bears likeness to the character of God Himself. Such a person thinks the way God does, feels the way God does and decides the way God does.
This then begs the next question, why doesn't God just zap us to become matured persons and not have to go through the painful process of growth in this life? The answer, because the growth process can only be done by a series of small free-will choices made by us throughout the process. We have to participate in the growth process. At each step of the process, we are faced with choices and decisions, each choice and decision bearing moral consequences. If we make the correct moral and wise choice, we move to the next level. If we don’t, we stagnate or retrogress. I have always said that who we will be in 20 years times depends on the series of small choices we make each day. We just don’t wake up one morning and find ourselves in a certain state. We are a product of our choices, and especially more so, when it comes to the business of soul making.
It was the same for the Christ. Hebrews tells us that the Christ had to learn obedience by His suffering, so that He could become the perfect author of our salvation. The perfect sacrifice could only come from a life lived perfectly in obedience to God.
So why is there a need for Christmas? Because without Christmas, there can be no Cross. Without the process, there can be no end result. So you are reading this and are currently struggling with your thorn, wondering why God is slow to hear and to act, remember Christmas - because from Christmas to the Cross, there was the process. God is building something in us that we cannot see now. For Paul writes in 2 Corinthians that our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. God bless and Merry Christmas.
Excuse me, are you running a ministry or a company?
Throughout my years in ministry, I have served on quite a few committees. In church, in Youth Ministry, in university etc. Oftentimes, running a church or a ministry involves planning meetings and nitty-gritty administration. We review our progress, discuss upcoming matters and issue directions. If there is a need to, we take a vote. We set strategies and implement programmes. Over a period of time, we become effective and our organization starts to thrive. Then we hit a plateau. Despite all our planning and efficient organization, we seem to be unable to move to a higher level. How do we plan and organise for revival? The answer: We can't. Only God can.
In the growth of any ministry, we must come to the stage of realization that if we are to go any further, we cannot do it on our plans, our efforts and organization. In fact, many a times, our efforts and plans are the very things that keep us from going further. In the best-selling book Experiencing God, the authors had a simple premise: To experience God, we have to get involved in the things HE is doing. The operative key is "HE", not us. To explain, in any ministry or church or small group, the focus must be not on what our own human plans and devises are, motivated by good intentions they may be. The focus must be on what HE is doing. Seven times to the seven churches in the Book of Revelations, Jesus said, "He who has ears to hear, let him hear what the Spirit is saying to the churches". The responsibility of any leader in any church or ministry or small group must therefore be to seek what God IS DOING and WANTS TO DO in our ministry.
How then does this impact on our ministry leadership? The answer is not more planning, but more prayer. A leader who is unable to hear from God is like a Platoon Commander who is unable to receive orders from the Commanding Officer. That platoon simply will not be able to fight the war effectively. Now is the time for leaders to come together in prayer. To facilitate this, two things are needful. First, purity. Second, unity. Lack of purity in the life of the leader silences the voice of God. Unconfessed and secret sins form a wedge between us and our Commanding Officer, often grieving the Spirit into silence. But blessed are the pure at heart for they shall see God. Lack of unity within the leadership also grieves the Spirit and makes us easy prey for the devil. From my experience, lack of unity often comes from a reliance on human wisdom and the exaltation of human ability within the leadership. We disagree with others because we think we know best and can do it better. That is pride. The call to unity is therefore a call to humility, to recognise that we are unable to do anything of ourselves. All power, all wisdom, all ability comes from above and there is only one Commanding Officer in this ministry, and His name is Jesus Christ.
The ball is now in our court. If we are to take our small group, our ministry and our church to a higher level of revival and spiritual reality, we have to prayer. We have to bow our knees and hear what the Spirit is saying to us. Let no flesh glory in His presence for He alone is God and this is His church. I am not saying we don't plan, we don't administer. But before any of that can take place, we must pray. For if we make decisions without having heard from the Spirit, then our decisions will ultimately be fraught with the fallibility and foolishness of human wisdom.
As Joshua stood with the army of Israel on the eve of the battle for Jericho, he saw the Lord standing before him with a drawn sword (Joshua 5:13). Not knowing that He was the Lord, Joshua went up to the Lord and asked him, "are you for us or are you for our enemies?" But the Lord replied, "Neither, but as the Commander of the Army of the Lord I now come." And Joshua fell on his face and worshipped and said "What does the Lord say to His servant?" This is not our battle, we are not in charge. There is only one Commander and His name is Jesus. Speak Lord for your servants are listening.
In the growth of any ministry, we must come to the stage of realization that if we are to go any further, we cannot do it on our plans, our efforts and organization. In fact, many a times, our efforts and plans are the very things that keep us from going further. In the best-selling book Experiencing God, the authors had a simple premise: To experience God, we have to get involved in the things HE is doing. The operative key is "HE", not us. To explain, in any ministry or church or small group, the focus must be not on what our own human plans and devises are, motivated by good intentions they may be. The focus must be on what HE is doing. Seven times to the seven churches in the Book of Revelations, Jesus said, "He who has ears to hear, let him hear what the Spirit is saying to the churches". The responsibility of any leader in any church or ministry or small group must therefore be to seek what God IS DOING and WANTS TO DO in our ministry.
How then does this impact on our ministry leadership? The answer is not more planning, but more prayer. A leader who is unable to hear from God is like a Platoon Commander who is unable to receive orders from the Commanding Officer. That platoon simply will not be able to fight the war effectively. Now is the time for leaders to come together in prayer. To facilitate this, two things are needful. First, purity. Second, unity. Lack of purity in the life of the leader silences the voice of God. Unconfessed and secret sins form a wedge between us and our Commanding Officer, often grieving the Spirit into silence. But blessed are the pure at heart for they shall see God. Lack of unity within the leadership also grieves the Spirit and makes us easy prey for the devil. From my experience, lack of unity often comes from a reliance on human wisdom and the exaltation of human ability within the leadership. We disagree with others because we think we know best and can do it better. That is pride. The call to unity is therefore a call to humility, to recognise that we are unable to do anything of ourselves. All power, all wisdom, all ability comes from above and there is only one Commanding Officer in this ministry, and His name is Jesus Christ.
The ball is now in our court. If we are to take our small group, our ministry and our church to a higher level of revival and spiritual reality, we have to prayer. We have to bow our knees and hear what the Spirit is saying to us. Let no flesh glory in His presence for He alone is God and this is His church. I am not saying we don't plan, we don't administer. But before any of that can take place, we must pray. For if we make decisions without having heard from the Spirit, then our decisions will ultimately be fraught with the fallibility and foolishness of human wisdom.
As Joshua stood with the army of Israel on the eve of the battle for Jericho, he saw the Lord standing before him with a drawn sword (Joshua 5:13). Not knowing that He was the Lord, Joshua went up to the Lord and asked him, "are you for us or are you for our enemies?" But the Lord replied, "Neither, but as the Commander of the Army of the Lord I now come." And Joshua fell on his face and worshipped and said "What does the Lord say to His servant?" This is not our battle, we are not in charge. There is only one Commander and His name is Jesus. Speak Lord for your servants are listening.
Keeping the fire of revival burning
Another fantastic YM camp has just concluded. Last year we thought we had set a record with a 3.5 hour worship. This year, God had greater things in stored for us. For the first time, more than 100 youths gathered on the last night to pray and intercede for more than 3 hours into the early hours of the morning. There was a very strong move by the Spirit for repentance and re-dedication. Many were on their knees in repentance. Leaders gathered to repent of the disunity and pride within the leadership. The call was made for leaders and youths alike to clean up the idols in our lives and give to God a living sacrifice holy and acceptable to Him. Hours earlier, during the speaker sessions, hundreds of youths rose to their feet to gave their lives in re-dedication to God. Hearts were broken before Him. Lips confessed His Lordship over our lives.
Herein lies the sparks of true revival. For true revival lies not in how spectacular the manifestations are, how much crying or falling over there is, or even how intense the worship is. True revival lies in the depths of a repentant heart. In 2 Chron 7:14 God promises that if we as a church were to humble ourselves and pray and seek His face and turn from our wicked ways, then He WILL hear from heaven and forgive our sins and heal our land. Repentance and surrender are the only marks of true revival. For without them, revival is but spiritless emotionalism.
Yet after the music stops, after the euphoria of the camp ends and we go back to the routine of our daily lives, how much will really change? For many, the loneliness and struggles will return in greater force than before. For the higher you have been, the harder you fall when reality hits you. Where is the power and the wonder and the Spirit? Was it just a dream to which we have woken up from? We find ourselves longing to re-create what has passed, barely holding on till the next "spiritual high". How do we keep the fire of revival burning?
The answer is painfully simple. The true marks of revival are repentance and surrender. The reason for the power and the experience during events like a camp is simply due to the presence of repentance and surrender. For it is only when we are empty that the Spirit can fill us with Himself. When we return to our normal lives, the temptation is for this repentance and surrender to stop. There is no longer the external motivations of our camp mates and camp speakers pushing us to repent and surrender. And when the repentance and surrender stops, we fill ourselves once again with pride and sin, and push the Spirit out of our lives. The result - the intimacy with God is lost and the experience of His power and His presence fades. The solution is therefore to continue to discipline ourselves to walk in daily repentance and surrender. We hold each other accountable and continue to encourage each other. If only we were to then walk daily in repentance and surrender, we will experience the fullness of the Spirit every day of our lives, every time we open the bible, every time we pray, every time we worship. For God is the same yesterday, today and forever. It is we who change and are wavering in our surrender to Him. Don't wait for the next camp. Let's keep the fire of revival burning today.
Herein lies the sparks of true revival. For true revival lies not in how spectacular the manifestations are, how much crying or falling over there is, or even how intense the worship is. True revival lies in the depths of a repentant heart. In 2 Chron 7:14 God promises that if we as a church were to humble ourselves and pray and seek His face and turn from our wicked ways, then He WILL hear from heaven and forgive our sins and heal our land. Repentance and surrender are the only marks of true revival. For without them, revival is but spiritless emotionalism.
Yet after the music stops, after the euphoria of the camp ends and we go back to the routine of our daily lives, how much will really change? For many, the loneliness and struggles will return in greater force than before. For the higher you have been, the harder you fall when reality hits you. Where is the power and the wonder and the Spirit? Was it just a dream to which we have woken up from? We find ourselves longing to re-create what has passed, barely holding on till the next "spiritual high". How do we keep the fire of revival burning?
The answer is painfully simple. The true marks of revival are repentance and surrender. The reason for the power and the experience during events like a camp is simply due to the presence of repentance and surrender. For it is only when we are empty that the Spirit can fill us with Himself. When we return to our normal lives, the temptation is for this repentance and surrender to stop. There is no longer the external motivations of our camp mates and camp speakers pushing us to repent and surrender. And when the repentance and surrender stops, we fill ourselves once again with pride and sin, and push the Spirit out of our lives. The result - the intimacy with God is lost and the experience of His power and His presence fades. The solution is therefore to continue to discipline ourselves to walk in daily repentance and surrender. We hold each other accountable and continue to encourage each other. If only we were to then walk daily in repentance and surrender, we will experience the fullness of the Spirit every day of our lives, every time we open the bible, every time we pray, every time we worship. For God is the same yesterday, today and forever. It is we who change and are wavering in our surrender to Him. Don't wait for the next camp. Let's keep the fire of revival burning today.
Why do we always hurt those closest to us?
Why do we always hurt those closest to us? It could be a parent, or a spouse, or a girlfriend/boyfriend. These are the people that mean the most to us yet so often we find ourselves losing our temper more quickly with them, or say things we know are hurtful. On the flip side, we tend to almost be more cordial and tolerant with those who are not so close to us. We tend to try harder to please those that are not so close, and therefore are more polite and grateful to them.
Some people say that the answer to the question of why we tend to hurt those closer to us is because ironically our loved ones know the 'buttons' to push in us. They know what triggers us and when they do it, they hurt us more deeply and we retaliate and hurt them back. This is true when there is a very low level of trust in the relationship. We may have been hurt so many times by those close to us that our response to a slight provocation is based not only on the provocation at hand but also all the past hurts we have endured from that person. This results in a disproportionately more severe retaliation to hurt the person. This theory in some way explains the severity of conflict in relationships where the trust level is low. But is does not explain why even in relationships where the trust level is high, and the relationship can be considered 'good', we still end up getting angry more easily with our loved ones and hurting them in return. Let me venture 2 theories:
Firslty, we are more likely to get angry at someone close to us because we have higher expectations of them. We expect them to know us and understand us better, to be able to predict our needs and take heed to our feelings better. We expect them to be more sensitive, more reliable, more trustworthy and more loving. We expect more time, more effort and more commitment to us. These higher expectations also means that it is easier for our loved ones to fall short of them. Failure to meet and expectation hurts us more deeply when it is by a loved one. How do we get around this? Firstly, I have to say that it is not wrong to have higher expectations of those closer to us. After all, surely the commitment involved in a marriage is higher than the commitment involved in a cordial friendship. The problem is that much of these expectations we have of our loved ones are never communicated to them. We simply assume they know of it and expect them to keep it. Often, we have never openly talked about our expectations as that is seen as too confrontational and awkward for many. On the receiving end, it is terribly unfair for the person who has never been told of the expectation and yet when he runs foul of it, is taken to task. The solution must therefore be for couples, parents and children etc, to sit down and calmly talk about their expectations of the other. Where the expectations are either unrealistic or oppressive, we negotiate to a more practical and workable level. In such a negotiation, both parties must focus on reaching a final level that addresses the concerns of both parties. For example, if a girlfriend raises the expectation that her boyfriend has to call her every night, it could be because she has a great need for validation and approval and finds a source of security in the relationship. From the boyfriend's point of view, calling every night may simply be impractical given work or study requirements. Both parties therefore need to negotiate and give and take. A final solution could be for Saturdays to be dedicated relationship time with conversations on weekdays reduced to at least calling to say goodnight every night if one does not have the time to talk. In this way, both concerns are met at a level of expectation that both parties can keep.
The next reason why we are more likely to get angry to someone close to us is because we have come to take them for granted. For new acquaintances or those not so close to us, we try to impress and gain their friendship by being nicer and more polite. However when it comes to our loved ones, we feel that we no longer have to work for their affection. We expect that they will still love us no matter how awful we are. This is why couples suddenly seem to quarrel more after they get married than when they are in the courtship phase. This is also why children are more likely to get angry with their parents than with their friends. How do we address this? This straight answer is to stop taking our loved ones for granted. May I suggest a rather 'morbid' approach here. Think of the possibility that you could lose this person at any time, that a calamity or accident could suddenly take this person away from you. For couples, think of the possibility of your loved one leaving you for someone else. Focus on how you would feel then. The sense of loss. The sense of regret that you had taken the person for granted and not told the person how much he or she means to you. How it would be too late by then. I know some of you may think this is rather morbid but I can guarantee that you will stop taking those around you for granted if you always keep in mind the possibility you could lose this person.
In conclusion, talk about your expectations and always learn to cherish those close to you before it is too late. This way, we will empower ourselves to build more meaningful and loving relationships.
Some people say that the answer to the question of why we tend to hurt those closer to us is because ironically our loved ones know the 'buttons' to push in us. They know what triggers us and when they do it, they hurt us more deeply and we retaliate and hurt them back. This is true when there is a very low level of trust in the relationship. We may have been hurt so many times by those close to us that our response to a slight provocation is based not only on the provocation at hand but also all the past hurts we have endured from that person. This results in a disproportionately more severe retaliation to hurt the person. This theory in some way explains the severity of conflict in relationships where the trust level is low. But is does not explain why even in relationships where the trust level is high, and the relationship can be considered 'good', we still end up getting angry more easily with our loved ones and hurting them in return. Let me venture 2 theories:
Firslty, we are more likely to get angry at someone close to us because we have higher expectations of them. We expect them to know us and understand us better, to be able to predict our needs and take heed to our feelings better. We expect them to be more sensitive, more reliable, more trustworthy and more loving. We expect more time, more effort and more commitment to us. These higher expectations also means that it is easier for our loved ones to fall short of them. Failure to meet and expectation hurts us more deeply when it is by a loved one. How do we get around this? Firstly, I have to say that it is not wrong to have higher expectations of those closer to us. After all, surely the commitment involved in a marriage is higher than the commitment involved in a cordial friendship. The problem is that much of these expectations we have of our loved ones are never communicated to them. We simply assume they know of it and expect them to keep it. Often, we have never openly talked about our expectations as that is seen as too confrontational and awkward for many. On the receiving end, it is terribly unfair for the person who has never been told of the expectation and yet when he runs foul of it, is taken to task. The solution must therefore be for couples, parents and children etc, to sit down and calmly talk about their expectations of the other. Where the expectations are either unrealistic or oppressive, we negotiate to a more practical and workable level. In such a negotiation, both parties must focus on reaching a final level that addresses the concerns of both parties. For example, if a girlfriend raises the expectation that her boyfriend has to call her every night, it could be because she has a great need for validation and approval and finds a source of security in the relationship. From the boyfriend's point of view, calling every night may simply be impractical given work or study requirements. Both parties therefore need to negotiate and give and take. A final solution could be for Saturdays to be dedicated relationship time with conversations on weekdays reduced to at least calling to say goodnight every night if one does not have the time to talk. In this way, both concerns are met at a level of expectation that both parties can keep.
The next reason why we are more likely to get angry to someone close to us is because we have come to take them for granted. For new acquaintances or those not so close to us, we try to impress and gain their friendship by being nicer and more polite. However when it comes to our loved ones, we feel that we no longer have to work for their affection. We expect that they will still love us no matter how awful we are. This is why couples suddenly seem to quarrel more after they get married than when they are in the courtship phase. This is also why children are more likely to get angry with their parents than with their friends. How do we address this? This straight answer is to stop taking our loved ones for granted. May I suggest a rather 'morbid' approach here. Think of the possibility that you could lose this person at any time, that a calamity or accident could suddenly take this person away from you. For couples, think of the possibility of your loved one leaving you for someone else. Focus on how you would feel then. The sense of loss. The sense of regret that you had taken the person for granted and not told the person how much he or she means to you. How it would be too late by then. I know some of you may think this is rather morbid but I can guarantee that you will stop taking those around you for granted if you always keep in mind the possibility you could lose this person.
In conclusion, talk about your expectations and always learn to cherish those close to you before it is too late. This way, we will empower ourselves to build more meaningful and loving relationships.
Pride in leadership
One of the most insidious and destructive things that can plague Christian leadership is pride. We see evidence of pride in secular leadership and most of us don’t really think this is a problem because self-confidence is exalted as a virtue in secular leadership. However when pride begins to plague Christian leadership, its effects can be devastating to the ministry. The real problem with pride in Christian leadership is that it often masks itself as other things, making the leader oblivious to its insidious emergence.
The birth of pride in a Christian leader often starts with the conferment of position and the experience of success in ministry. When a person is placed in a position of power or prominence in ministry, the temptation is to begin to associate ourselves with the position. This happens when our sense of identity is subsumed by the position. We are treated as important and respected by others by virtue of our position. Overtime we begin to think that we are in fact more important and better than others. This specifically plagues the more prominent leadership positions, whether it is a pastor, a small group leader, a worship leader, a chairman of a ministry or a Sunday school teacher. We begin to exalt ourselves in our own minds, forgetting that we still human, sinful human saved by grace. The fact that it is Christian ministry makes it worse because we then deceive ourselves that our elevation and authority is from God.
How does pride manifest in Christian leadership? Let me suggest a two basic symptoms. The first symptom is dogmatism. The leader becomes un-teachable and very set on a certain way of doing things and seeing things. The leader adopts a “don’t tell me how to do things, I have been doing it with great success in the past” kind of mindset. Such a leader monopolises decision making, forces his or her ideas on others, are close to dissenting points of view, and prides himself on always being right. We surround ourselves with people who agree with us and remove those who differ. This slowly stifles the ministry because the leader becomes unable to change and adapt to the changing needs of the ministry.
The second symptom is self-righteousness. The leader sits in criticism of everyone else and yet is blind to his own faults. “I can do things better than you” is the mantra. We begin to point out everyone else’s faults, why this person is not good enough, why that person is not doing it right or not fit for the position. We sit in judge over everyone. On the flip side, the combination of lack of teachability and self-righteousness makes the leader blind to his own moral inadequacies. Such a leader is not accountable to anyone because everyone else is ‘beneath’ him. This is dangerous because it allows sin to enter the personal life of the leader and remain unchecked. We then wonder why there is no revival in the flock when the shepherds themselves continue in sin.
The consequences of such Christian leadership is severe. Leadership that is plague with pride is leadership that is no longer humble and submitted to God. Any work of such a leader will be work done in the flesh, lacking the blessing and anointing of God. Without the anointing, the ministry soon looses its spiritual vitality and power and the flock under the leader suffers. On an organisation level, such pride breeds disunity and discouragement. Those who are side-lined by the ‘powerful’ becomes discouraged and fall out. Others who feel that their views and their contribution is not recognised may fight back, thus creating dissension and politicking within the ministry. Such dissension fractures the unity of the body and grieves the Holy Spirit.
The only solution that remains is repentance. As leaders, we must humbly come before God and seek his forgiveness for the pride that has plagued us. We must search our hearts under the spotlight of the Holy Spirit, identifying and repenting of our dogmatism and self-righteousness. We must become real once again about our sin and deal with them at the foot of the cross. For it is only when leaders get their own lives right with God and unite as one that revival will happen in our ministry. For revival begins with the leadership.
The birth of pride in a Christian leader often starts with the conferment of position and the experience of success in ministry. When a person is placed in a position of power or prominence in ministry, the temptation is to begin to associate ourselves with the position. This happens when our sense of identity is subsumed by the position. We are treated as important and respected by others by virtue of our position. Overtime we begin to think that we are in fact more important and better than others. This specifically plagues the more prominent leadership positions, whether it is a pastor, a small group leader, a worship leader, a chairman of a ministry or a Sunday school teacher. We begin to exalt ourselves in our own minds, forgetting that we still human, sinful human saved by grace. The fact that it is Christian ministry makes it worse because we then deceive ourselves that our elevation and authority is from God.
How does pride manifest in Christian leadership? Let me suggest a two basic symptoms. The first symptom is dogmatism. The leader becomes un-teachable and very set on a certain way of doing things and seeing things. The leader adopts a “don’t tell me how to do things, I have been doing it with great success in the past” kind of mindset. Such a leader monopolises decision making, forces his or her ideas on others, are close to dissenting points of view, and prides himself on always being right. We surround ourselves with people who agree with us and remove those who differ. This slowly stifles the ministry because the leader becomes unable to change and adapt to the changing needs of the ministry.
The second symptom is self-righteousness. The leader sits in criticism of everyone else and yet is blind to his own faults. “I can do things better than you” is the mantra. We begin to point out everyone else’s faults, why this person is not good enough, why that person is not doing it right or not fit for the position. We sit in judge over everyone. On the flip side, the combination of lack of teachability and self-righteousness makes the leader blind to his own moral inadequacies. Such a leader is not accountable to anyone because everyone else is ‘beneath’ him. This is dangerous because it allows sin to enter the personal life of the leader and remain unchecked. We then wonder why there is no revival in the flock when the shepherds themselves continue in sin.
The consequences of such Christian leadership is severe. Leadership that is plague with pride is leadership that is no longer humble and submitted to God. Any work of such a leader will be work done in the flesh, lacking the blessing and anointing of God. Without the anointing, the ministry soon looses its spiritual vitality and power and the flock under the leader suffers. On an organisation level, such pride breeds disunity and discouragement. Those who are side-lined by the ‘powerful’ becomes discouraged and fall out. Others who feel that their views and their contribution is not recognised may fight back, thus creating dissension and politicking within the ministry. Such dissension fractures the unity of the body and grieves the Holy Spirit.
The only solution that remains is repentance. As leaders, we must humbly come before God and seek his forgiveness for the pride that has plagued us. We must search our hearts under the spotlight of the Holy Spirit, identifying and repenting of our dogmatism and self-righteousness. We must become real once again about our sin and deal with them at the foot of the cross. For it is only when leaders get their own lives right with God and unite as one that revival will happen in our ministry. For revival begins with the leadership.
Are you faking your worship?
We have all experienced it before. We have all had Sundays when we come into a worship service and just don’t feel like worshipping. If we are honest, we would rather be somewhere else, perhaps sleeping at home or just chilling. Yet we are made to stand and sing song after song, sometime repeating stanza after stanza, pushing us to the limits of our physical tolerance. So we fake it. We raise our hands like everyone. We put on the intense pained expression that creates the illusion that we are deep in worship. We seem so spiritual. During the slow songs, we close our eyes and bow our heads…waking up only when we are asked to stand again. Why does worship seem so life-transforming for some and such a chore for others? Why do some have such intense experiences and others only dryness? This is an important question that can perhaps be answered if we understand our true motivations to worship. Some people say we must worship God whether we feel like it or not because we are commanded to do so. While I see some merit in the discipline of worship, such emotionless stoic worship simply cannot be sustained. We need to come back to the heart of worship. Here are two thoughts in respect of worship:
The Start of Worship – The Heart of God
Foster once said that worship is our hearts response to the overtures of love that flow from the heart of God. This is and must be the starting premise of our worship. Worship is the act of “loving God back”. And we can only truly love him back if our hearts have come to experience his love. Many a times, we come into worship feeling so far from God either because of sin or pure neglect in our intimacy with him. The problem with sin is that it casts over us a spirit of condemnation such that when we try to enter into worship, we simply do not feel that God accepts us. This sense of rejection makes it very hard for us to believe that he loves us, much less feel his love, and still less, want to worship him. The approach must then be to deal with sin before we attempt to come into worship. We search our hearts and humble ourselves before him. For it is only with repentance and submission that we experience the liberation of forgiveness. In these times of absolute surrender, his love and embracing presence once again becomes most palpable. Wave after wave of love from the Father’s heart is poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, the comforter testifying to our inner man of his everlasting approval and unending salvation. In such a state, the heart cannot but worship him who first loved us. We fall to our knees in tears as the magnitude of his unending love overwhelms us. In that instance, we become a mirror of love, receiving his love and mirroring that love back to him. For that moment, we touch the heart of heaven.
The End of Worship – Our heart’s true home
The incredible thing about worship is that in worship, our heart finds its true home. Let me try to explain. Many of us struggle with the many and various aspects and facets of our lives. We play many roles, pursue many different things in each of these roles. Some of us are students, small group leaders, sons or daughters at the same time. Others are secular professionals, church leaders, fathers and mentors at the same time. Oftentimes we feel torn apart by these many roles that we play, trying to pursue different and sometimes contradictory objectives, trying to meet different and sometimes competing expectations. In short, we are “all over the place”, unsure of who we really are or what is really important. We are confused and disjointed. The incredible thing is that in worship, every disparate aspect of our lives comes together and coalesces into the singularity of purpose – the created in submission before his creator. All the different strands of our lives align like a compass towards the throne of God. For then, we realise that this was why we were created. We are not God. He is. Our entire being falls prostrate before His throne in recognition of His supremacy. In such worship, our heart finds it true rest and our soul its true home. There is no more inner conflict, no more confusion, no more strife. There is only God and we simply live for him. To enter the reality of worship is to enter into the heart of God and find our heart’s true home.
The Start of Worship – The Heart of God
Foster once said that worship is our hearts response to the overtures of love that flow from the heart of God. This is and must be the starting premise of our worship. Worship is the act of “loving God back”. And we can only truly love him back if our hearts have come to experience his love. Many a times, we come into worship feeling so far from God either because of sin or pure neglect in our intimacy with him. The problem with sin is that it casts over us a spirit of condemnation such that when we try to enter into worship, we simply do not feel that God accepts us. This sense of rejection makes it very hard for us to believe that he loves us, much less feel his love, and still less, want to worship him. The approach must then be to deal with sin before we attempt to come into worship. We search our hearts and humble ourselves before him. For it is only with repentance and submission that we experience the liberation of forgiveness. In these times of absolute surrender, his love and embracing presence once again becomes most palpable. Wave after wave of love from the Father’s heart is poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, the comforter testifying to our inner man of his everlasting approval and unending salvation. In such a state, the heart cannot but worship him who first loved us. We fall to our knees in tears as the magnitude of his unending love overwhelms us. In that instance, we become a mirror of love, receiving his love and mirroring that love back to him. For that moment, we touch the heart of heaven.
The End of Worship – Our heart’s true home
The incredible thing about worship is that in worship, our heart finds its true home. Let me try to explain. Many of us struggle with the many and various aspects and facets of our lives. We play many roles, pursue many different things in each of these roles. Some of us are students, small group leaders, sons or daughters at the same time. Others are secular professionals, church leaders, fathers and mentors at the same time. Oftentimes we feel torn apart by these many roles that we play, trying to pursue different and sometimes contradictory objectives, trying to meet different and sometimes competing expectations. In short, we are “all over the place”, unsure of who we really are or what is really important. We are confused and disjointed. The incredible thing is that in worship, every disparate aspect of our lives comes together and coalesces into the singularity of purpose – the created in submission before his creator. All the different strands of our lives align like a compass towards the throne of God. For then, we realise that this was why we were created. We are not God. He is. Our entire being falls prostrate before His throne in recognition of His supremacy. In such worship, our heart finds it true rest and our soul its true home. There is no more inner conflict, no more confusion, no more strife. There is only God and we simply live for him. To enter the reality of worship is to enter into the heart of God and find our heart’s true home.
What's your plant?
"God I am so angry I want to die!" Jonah told God (Jonah 4:3) God had done it again. Exactly what Jonah thought God would do. Jonah had preached to Nineveh and the city and repented and God had forgiven them! And Jonah was pissed. The Ninevites were bitter enemies of Israel, and Jonah was the last person who wanted to be used by God for their salvation. As if that was not enough to piss Jonah off, Jonah's precious plant that gave him shade in the desert was eaten by a worm and died (Jonah 4:7). And now Jonah was getting scotched in the hot desert sun. Now he was so pissed he really wanted to die (Jonah 4:8).
Have you ever been so angry or upset at something that you wanted to die? Something happened or someone did something inconsiderate or selfish that really pissed you off. Everytime you think about the incident, your blood boils and your stomach churns. Your mind wonders to ways you can take revenge and contemplates the delight you will enjoy inflicting that revenge on the person. Sometimes our anger is even directed at God. He is suppose to be trustworthy and loving but you really feel let down this time.
"Is it right for you to be angry?" God asked Jonah (Jonah 4:4 and 4:9) What God was saying was really "Is your anger legitimate?" Should you really be getting angry about this? Let's get some perspective here Jonah...You have preached to 120,000 people and the entire city repented. This is one of the greatest revivals in biblical history. 120,000 souls saved. Any mordern day evangelist would be proud of that, and fall down on his knees in thanksgiving. Yet you are pissed off about it! Let's get some perspective here. Now you are also getting pissed over the stupid plant which died. You care more for the plant than the souls of man! You need to wake up your ideas and get your priorities right, Jonah! And the book of Jonah ended right there.
The painful lesson we need to consider is sometimes, like Jonah, we get angry over all the wrong things. The things we get angry about reveal alot about our priorities. And often times, the small, petty insignificant things we get angry about just reveal how selfish we are about things. If you are like me, I don't really get angry about the injustice suffered by millions in the world. I don't really get angry about the millions of aborted babies, or abused children, or victims of crime. I don't really get angry about the fact that selfish industrialist are killing our planet or world powers are using their military and economic might to justify attacking smaller nations. I may disapprove of these things but they hardly extract much emotion from me. What I do get angry about is someone cutting me in on the road, driving at 80 kmh on the extreme right lane of the expressway, bad service in a restaurant, a guy at the front of the queue taking his own sweet time.
I've been thinking alot about this lately. Alot of the things we get angry about are simply not worth getting angry about. They only reveal our wrong priorities and perspective about life and things. Maybe it is time we get in with God's priorities and perspective. To God, nothing else is as important as people. Their rights, their freedom, their dignity, their welfare and the salvation of their souls. Every person is created by God, nurtured from young by Him and percious to Him. This means that in every situation when we are angry over our own violated rights, we all have a choice, you and I. We can either get pissed off and take it out on the world to vindicate our own selfishness. Or we can take the opportunity to affirm the dignity of a fellow human being, to show respect and love to a fellow human being, to respond in a way that will make our society a more gracious place, and to make someone else's day. How we respond will reveal where our priorities lie, what is important to us. Like Jonah, we all have our plants...something small and petty and selfish that we are so pissed off about we want to die. And then the Lord knocks on our door, "Is it right for you to be angry..."
Have you ever been so angry or upset at something that you wanted to die? Something happened or someone did something inconsiderate or selfish that really pissed you off. Everytime you think about the incident, your blood boils and your stomach churns. Your mind wonders to ways you can take revenge and contemplates the delight you will enjoy inflicting that revenge on the person. Sometimes our anger is even directed at God. He is suppose to be trustworthy and loving but you really feel let down this time.
"Is it right for you to be angry?" God asked Jonah (Jonah 4:4 and 4:9) What God was saying was really "Is your anger legitimate?" Should you really be getting angry about this? Let's get some perspective here Jonah...You have preached to 120,000 people and the entire city repented. This is one of the greatest revivals in biblical history. 120,000 souls saved. Any mordern day evangelist would be proud of that, and fall down on his knees in thanksgiving. Yet you are pissed off about it! Let's get some perspective here. Now you are also getting pissed over the stupid plant which died. You care more for the plant than the souls of man! You need to wake up your ideas and get your priorities right, Jonah! And the book of Jonah ended right there.
The painful lesson we need to consider is sometimes, like Jonah, we get angry over all the wrong things. The things we get angry about reveal alot about our priorities. And often times, the small, petty insignificant things we get angry about just reveal how selfish we are about things. If you are like me, I don't really get angry about the injustice suffered by millions in the world. I don't really get angry about the millions of aborted babies, or abused children, or victims of crime. I don't really get angry about the fact that selfish industrialist are killing our planet or world powers are using their military and economic might to justify attacking smaller nations. I may disapprove of these things but they hardly extract much emotion from me. What I do get angry about is someone cutting me in on the road, driving at 80 kmh on the extreme right lane of the expressway, bad service in a restaurant, a guy at the front of the queue taking his own sweet time.
I've been thinking alot about this lately. Alot of the things we get angry about are simply not worth getting angry about. They only reveal our wrong priorities and perspective about life and things. Maybe it is time we get in with God's priorities and perspective. To God, nothing else is as important as people. Their rights, their freedom, their dignity, their welfare and the salvation of their souls. Every person is created by God, nurtured from young by Him and percious to Him. This means that in every situation when we are angry over our own violated rights, we all have a choice, you and I. We can either get pissed off and take it out on the world to vindicate our own selfishness. Or we can take the opportunity to affirm the dignity of a fellow human being, to show respect and love to a fellow human being, to respond in a way that will make our society a more gracious place, and to make someone else's day. How we respond will reveal where our priorities lie, what is important to us. Like Jonah, we all have our plants...something small and petty and selfish that we are so pissed off about we want to die. And then the Lord knocks on our door, "Is it right for you to be angry..."
Why can't I have sex with my girlfriend?
Pre-marital sex. 'Get with the times. Everyone does it. Only those prudish Christians don't.' This is one area Christians get some of the most flak from non-Christians. Worst still, many unmarried Christian couples struggle with this issue, uncertain if pre-marital sex is really wrong or why it is wrong. Ask your average Christian if pre-marital sex is wrong and he or she will probably say ‘yes’. Then ask why it is wrong and you will probably get the lame "err...cos the bible says so I suppose..." To be fair, the bible has never explicitly said so but we can infer from parts of scripture that it is probably wrong. But that just isn't enough for most of us post-modern-question-authority-I-want-to-know-why-generation-x type of people. Here's my take on this controversial and thorny topic...
Where the bible is either not explicit or grey about a certain area, we return to the ultimate law to determine if something is morally right or wrong. This is the law of love. Romans 13:8-10 tells us that all the commandments of God can be summed up in the mandate to love one another. So what is love? To love someone is to affirm the highest intrinsic worth and value of another person. To act in love is to act in a way where the highest worth and value of another person is affirmed. Superimpose this into the question of pre-marital sex and the question becomes, "does pre-marital sex affirm the highest intrinsic worth and value of your partner?"
To answer this question, we must realise that in any relationship, there is a balance between intimacy and commitment. Think of a pyramid with intimacy on one side and commitment on the other. Where there is more intimacy than there is commitment, the relationship becomes imbalanced and doomed to fail. We see this all to often in relationships where one party acts selfishly and does not want to commit. The absence of commitment in any relationship robs the relationship of the security and reliability necessary for the relationship to flourish.
Move up the intimacy side of the pyramid and we find that sex is the pinnacle of intimacy. In sexual intercourse, we take from our partner what is the most intimate and most private of privileges. It is also an act of the highest consequence as from it springs forth children. Because the sexual act is of the highest intimacy and consequence, only the highest of commitment can legitimize it. For to take the highest intimacy from another without the corresponding willingness to give the highest commitment is tantamount to rape - because we take more than we are willing to give. And the highest pinnacle of commitment is marriage. In marriage, we pledge our highest commitment ‘to have and to hold, for richer or for poorer, in sickness or in health, for as long as we both shall live.” In marriage, we make this pledge before God, thus conferring on it sacredness; we make this pledge before the church, thus conferring on it accountability; and we make this pledge before the law, thus conferring on it the force of legal protection. It is my humble submission therefore that if there is sex in the absence of marriage, such an act does not affirm the highest intrinsic worth and value of our partner because we are essentially taking more than we are willing to give. Such an act is inherently selfish and therefore runs foul of the law of love. Perhaps now we know why it has been wisely said, “if you truly love someone, you will not have sex with her before you are married.”
Where the bible is either not explicit or grey about a certain area, we return to the ultimate law to determine if something is morally right or wrong. This is the law of love. Romans 13:8-10 tells us that all the commandments of God can be summed up in the mandate to love one another. So what is love? To love someone is to affirm the highest intrinsic worth and value of another person. To act in love is to act in a way where the highest worth and value of another person is affirmed. Superimpose this into the question of pre-marital sex and the question becomes, "does pre-marital sex affirm the highest intrinsic worth and value of your partner?"
To answer this question, we must realise that in any relationship, there is a balance between intimacy and commitment. Think of a pyramid with intimacy on one side and commitment on the other. Where there is more intimacy than there is commitment, the relationship becomes imbalanced and doomed to fail. We see this all to often in relationships where one party acts selfishly and does not want to commit. The absence of commitment in any relationship robs the relationship of the security and reliability necessary for the relationship to flourish.
Move up the intimacy side of the pyramid and we find that sex is the pinnacle of intimacy. In sexual intercourse, we take from our partner what is the most intimate and most private of privileges. It is also an act of the highest consequence as from it springs forth children. Because the sexual act is of the highest intimacy and consequence, only the highest of commitment can legitimize it. For to take the highest intimacy from another without the corresponding willingness to give the highest commitment is tantamount to rape - because we take more than we are willing to give. And the highest pinnacle of commitment is marriage. In marriage, we pledge our highest commitment ‘to have and to hold, for richer or for poorer, in sickness or in health, for as long as we both shall live.” In marriage, we make this pledge before God, thus conferring on it sacredness; we make this pledge before the church, thus conferring on it accountability; and we make this pledge before the law, thus conferring on it the force of legal protection. It is my humble submission therefore that if there is sex in the absence of marriage, such an act does not affirm the highest intrinsic worth and value of our partner because we are essentially taking more than we are willing to give. Such an act is inherently selfish and therefore runs foul of the law of love. Perhaps now we know why it has been wisely said, “if you truly love someone, you will not have sex with her before you are married.”
The Christian's quest for wealth
A couple of days ago, I attended a financial investment seminar for the first time. It was touted as a seminar that would teach you how to get really rich really fast. According to the speaker, an author of best-selling books on topic, you could go from $10000 to a $1 million in 5 years. You would be amazed how many, I would guess about 4000, people turned up eagerly to lap up what he had to say. I must admit I did feel like a fish out of water initially. Everyone of the thousands had "ambition" written all over their foreheads. You could sense the competitiveness in the air, from the way they competed for parking space before the event to the way they rushed to get the best seats, to the way they strutted around the auditorium networking during the breaks. From the type of cars most of these people drove, I gathered most were the ambitious middle class trying to break into the fortified world of the rich and famous where, according to the speaker, the 'fast-track' to cash existed. "Why buy a Volvo when you can buy a Porsche?" said the speaker. "I don’t look good in cheap cars!". Everyone in the audience laughed supportingly. The speaker, in his expensive tailored suit, looked every bit the multi-millionaire he was trying to convince us we could all become. But here's the catch, you had to buy his expensive products that would tell you how to get rich. I went home feeling somewhat cheated. I had paid money to get advertised to. What a genius. Maybe that's why he drives a Porsche and I drive a Honda.
You may be asking why I went to the seminar in the first place. Isn't wealth and Christianity somehow incompatible? After all, Jesus taught that we should build up treasures in heaven and not on earth. Looking at how fast my little baby girl was growing up, the need to provide for her future has become increasingly real recently. The need to provide for retirement has also become increasingly real. After all, isn't the government constantly saying that many Singaporeans aren't planning for their retirement and won't have enough to survive after they stop working. Despite the fact that I'm only 30 and already earn enough to qualify for a platinum card, the future does seem worrying. Everything is money, money, money. Car, maid, housing, kid's education, medical costs. Everything costs money. Then we superimpose the Christian ideology of not chasing money and struggle to fit the two together.
I have searched my heart and realised that at the core lies the fundamental issue of trust. Do we trust that God provides, both financially and materially? If we somehow feel that we can't trust Him to provide or that we want much more than we think He will ever provide, then we take it upon ourselves to strive, to build our kingdoms of wealth in this world. After all, the end of wealth is security. But even if I accept that I do trust God to provide, and am secure in my faith in Him, everything isnt so simple. I am still expected to be wise and prudent about money, the way I spend it, the way I save it and the way I invest it. Many forget that the wise servants in the parable of the talents (in Matt 25:14-30) actually went out and traded the money they were entrusted and got 100% returns on their investment. And they were commended for that. The context of this parable is being prepared for the Second Coming of Christ. We are told to be watchful for we do not know the hour of His coming (Mat 24:42). We are told to be a faithful servant during this time (Mat 24:45-51), and to be wise and prepare ourselves (Mat 25:1-13). The crux of the message, in our preparation for the return of our Lord, we are to be good stewards of the money and abilities and time He has given us. Having considered all the issues, I think this is where the balance of attitudes lie.
We recognise that all the things of this world are transient (temporary) and that shortly Christ will return in final glory. Only that which He considers important is truly important.
Secondly, we trust that God provides for His children more than we can ever ask for imagine. And our exercise of faith in this respect causes His grace and provision to flow into our lives. This frees us from alot of strive and anxiety and foolish decisions we make in our pursuit of money.
Thirdly, we recognise that although wealth is transient and that God provides, He still expects us to be good stewards of the money He has given us. Like every part of the equation of the Christian life, we co-operate with God, responding in faith and obedience to His grace. It is here that investment and sound financial planning finds its place in the Christian life. Money is not a god we worship, but it is something entrusted to us as stewards and we will have to account to God as to how we manage it and use it to provide for the people and the ministries God has entrusted under our care.
Will I attend another financial seminar or investment talk? I probably will, but with a clearer perspective the next time...
You may be asking why I went to the seminar in the first place. Isn't wealth and Christianity somehow incompatible? After all, Jesus taught that we should build up treasures in heaven and not on earth. Looking at how fast my little baby girl was growing up, the need to provide for her future has become increasingly real recently. The need to provide for retirement has also become increasingly real. After all, isn't the government constantly saying that many Singaporeans aren't planning for their retirement and won't have enough to survive after they stop working. Despite the fact that I'm only 30 and already earn enough to qualify for a platinum card, the future does seem worrying. Everything is money, money, money. Car, maid, housing, kid's education, medical costs. Everything costs money. Then we superimpose the Christian ideology of not chasing money and struggle to fit the two together.
I have searched my heart and realised that at the core lies the fundamental issue of trust. Do we trust that God provides, both financially and materially? If we somehow feel that we can't trust Him to provide or that we want much more than we think He will ever provide, then we take it upon ourselves to strive, to build our kingdoms of wealth in this world. After all, the end of wealth is security. But even if I accept that I do trust God to provide, and am secure in my faith in Him, everything isnt so simple. I am still expected to be wise and prudent about money, the way I spend it, the way I save it and the way I invest it. Many forget that the wise servants in the parable of the talents (in Matt 25:14-30) actually went out and traded the money they were entrusted and got 100% returns on their investment. And they were commended for that. The context of this parable is being prepared for the Second Coming of Christ. We are told to be watchful for we do not know the hour of His coming (Mat 24:42). We are told to be a faithful servant during this time (Mat 24:45-51), and to be wise and prepare ourselves (Mat 25:1-13). The crux of the message, in our preparation for the return of our Lord, we are to be good stewards of the money and abilities and time He has given us. Having considered all the issues, I think this is where the balance of attitudes lie.
We recognise that all the things of this world are transient (temporary) and that shortly Christ will return in final glory. Only that which He considers important is truly important.
Secondly, we trust that God provides for His children more than we can ever ask for imagine. And our exercise of faith in this respect causes His grace and provision to flow into our lives. This frees us from alot of strive and anxiety and foolish decisions we make in our pursuit of money.
Thirdly, we recognise that although wealth is transient and that God provides, He still expects us to be good stewards of the money He has given us. Like every part of the equation of the Christian life, we co-operate with God, responding in faith and obedience to His grace. It is here that investment and sound financial planning finds its place in the Christian life. Money is not a god we worship, but it is something entrusted to us as stewards and we will have to account to God as to how we manage it and use it to provide for the people and the ministries God has entrusted under our care.
Will I attend another financial seminar or investment talk? I probably will, but with a clearer perspective the next time...
Love without conditions
From young we are told that the love of God is "unconditional". We are taught that God loves us despite what we do and regardless of how sinful we are. Unconditional means "without conditions", ie. God does not place any conditions or criteria on us before He loves us. But examine this concept with me for a while. Do we really accept that God loves us unconditionally? After all, shouldn't we expect God to get angry at us when we sin and to punish and vindicate his wrath upon us? If I sin repeatedly and wilfully defy God time and time again, isnt there a limit to His tolerance? Can I really expect Him to bless me given my shameful deeds? These are thoughts we all commonly think about God. And it is not surprising that we go through such a thought process when we think about God because this is what we have experience from those in authority in our lives, whether our parents, our teachers, our bosses or even our church leaders.
Human love is, for the most part, conditional. It is conditional in that we subconsciously impose certain conditions on another before we will love and accept that person. Even in the most giving of relationships, ie. parent to a child, spouse to spouse and between best friends, even with the best intentions, we still struggle to love someone unconditionally. Even the people who love us the most get angry at us sometimes. In a society like Singapore, the problem is compounded because of the strong emphasis on meritocracy and performance. Only the worthy are rewarded. Only the meritorious promoted. If you dont make the grade at each stage of the education system, you are classified, labelled and rejected. To be accepted, we have to perform. As such, when we think about God, we superimpose this view of love on Him. This makes it very difficult to believe that He loves us unconditionally because such an idea goes against our experiences in every one of our human relationships.
The truth that must be asserted here is that a conditional view of God's love runs contrary to the very heart of God. Here we must make a distinction between anger, discipline and love. In our human experiences, when someone is angry at us or disciplining us, there is very little or no love involved. Discipline motivated by anger is vindictive and often abusive. As such, we have come to treat anger and discipline as mutually exclusive with love. Love cannot co-exist with anger and discipline. We have all had authority figures who say they are discipling us because they love us but often such discipline is often motivate by the expression of vengeful anger rather than genuine unconditional love. This scars our belief that any discipline can ever be loving. Yet only in the heart of God is love pure enough to co-exist with anger and discipline. God may be angry at our sin and may even be moved to discipline us at times, but the hard to believe truth is that every action, every move of discipline is movitated by pure and genuine love. There is a total absence of vindictiveness or vengefulness in the anger or discipline of God. Every action is motivated solely to achieving what is the best, and most beneficial and the highest good for us. For the thoughts of God towards us are selfless and compassionate. His love is at once inexhaustable, extravagant and indulgent. For what God would give His life for a world who persist in hating and rejecting Him? We can sin, but we can never sin ourselves out of His love and acceptance. It does not mean He will not discipline us, but His extravagant embrace will never loosen and the passion of His heart will never wane. Listen to the pain in His heart of love...
When Israel was a child, I loved him,
and out of Egypt I called my son.
But the more I called Israel,
the further they went from me.
They sacrificed to the Baals
and they burned incense to images.
It was I who taught Ephraim to walk,
taking them by the arms;
but they did not realize
it was I who healed them.
I led them with cords of human kindness,
with ties of love;
I lifted the yoke from their neck
and bent down to feed them.
"Will they not return to Egypt
and will not Assyria rule over them
because they refuse to repent?
Swords will flash in their cities,
will destroy the bars of their gates
and put an end to their plans.
My people are determined to turn from me.
Even if they call to the Most High,
he will by no means exalt them.
"How can I give you up, Ephraim?
How can I hand you over, Israel?
How can I treat you like Admah?
How can I make you like Zeboiim?
My heart is changed within me;
all my compassion is aroused.
I will not carry out my fierce anger,
nor will I turn and devastate Ephraim.
For I am God, and not man-
the Holy One among you.
I will not come in wrath.
Hosea 11:1-9
Human love is, for the most part, conditional. It is conditional in that we subconsciously impose certain conditions on another before we will love and accept that person. Even in the most giving of relationships, ie. parent to a child, spouse to spouse and between best friends, even with the best intentions, we still struggle to love someone unconditionally. Even the people who love us the most get angry at us sometimes. In a society like Singapore, the problem is compounded because of the strong emphasis on meritocracy and performance. Only the worthy are rewarded. Only the meritorious promoted. If you dont make the grade at each stage of the education system, you are classified, labelled and rejected. To be accepted, we have to perform. As such, when we think about God, we superimpose this view of love on Him. This makes it very difficult to believe that He loves us unconditionally because such an idea goes against our experiences in every one of our human relationships.
The truth that must be asserted here is that a conditional view of God's love runs contrary to the very heart of God. Here we must make a distinction between anger, discipline and love. In our human experiences, when someone is angry at us or disciplining us, there is very little or no love involved. Discipline motivated by anger is vindictive and often abusive. As such, we have come to treat anger and discipline as mutually exclusive with love. Love cannot co-exist with anger and discipline. We have all had authority figures who say they are discipling us because they love us but often such discipline is often motivate by the expression of vengeful anger rather than genuine unconditional love. This scars our belief that any discipline can ever be loving. Yet only in the heart of God is love pure enough to co-exist with anger and discipline. God may be angry at our sin and may even be moved to discipline us at times, but the hard to believe truth is that every action, every move of discipline is movitated by pure and genuine love. There is a total absence of vindictiveness or vengefulness in the anger or discipline of God. Every action is motivated solely to achieving what is the best, and most beneficial and the highest good for us. For the thoughts of God towards us are selfless and compassionate. His love is at once inexhaustable, extravagant and indulgent. For what God would give His life for a world who persist in hating and rejecting Him? We can sin, but we can never sin ourselves out of His love and acceptance. It does not mean He will not discipline us, but His extravagant embrace will never loosen and the passion of His heart will never wane. Listen to the pain in His heart of love...
When Israel was a child, I loved him,
and out of Egypt I called my son.
But the more I called Israel,
the further they went from me.
They sacrificed to the Baals
and they burned incense to images.
It was I who taught Ephraim to walk,
taking them by the arms;
but they did not realize
it was I who healed them.
I led them with cords of human kindness,
with ties of love;
I lifted the yoke from their neck
and bent down to feed them.
"Will they not return to Egypt
and will not Assyria rule over them
because they refuse to repent?
Swords will flash in their cities,
will destroy the bars of their gates
and put an end to their plans.
My people are determined to turn from me.
Even if they call to the Most High,
he will by no means exalt them.
"How can I give you up, Ephraim?
How can I hand you over, Israel?
How can I treat you like Admah?
How can I make you like Zeboiim?
My heart is changed within me;
all my compassion is aroused.
I will not carry out my fierce anger,
nor will I turn and devastate Ephraim.
For I am God, and not man-
the Holy One among you.
I will not come in wrath.
Hosea 11:1-9
Finding God's will for my life in 5 easy steps
This is what everyone tells you to do but no one really tells you how. Most will just give you the rather unhelpful "why don't you go home and pray about it?" Finally, how to find God's will for your life in 5 'easy' steps. (well not that easy...)
The following steps apply whether you are trying to decide if you should change jobs, what JC or uni you should go to, whether you should go out and marry this girl or guy, whether you should buy the next ipod when you already have one, or whether you should obey your parents who tell you to stop going to church...essentially, it applies to all moral decisions. The following steps do not apply however to what you should eat for dinner or whether you should wear the red or blue T-shirt.
STEP ONE - DECIDE THAT YOU WILL OBEY GOD
George Mueller writes, "I seek at the beginning to get my heart into such a state that it has no will of its own in regard to a given matter". It is important to decide in our hearts at the very beginning that we will obey God on this issue. If we have already set our minds on a certain option, we should be aware that there is a tremendous capacity for self-deception in us, to try to "force" God's will to somehow support our own decision. Our bias will prevent us from truly hearing from God and we will hear only what we want to hear. Only the obedient heart will hear from God.
STEP TWO - CHECK YOUR MOTIVES
99.9% of all the major decision we make in our lives are moral decision. Even the issue of choosing a partner, or a JC or a new job. These decisions are moral decision because we have hidden motives behind each choice we make. And these motives can either be right (pure) or wrong (sinful) motives. For example, we may want to date a certain girl because it improves our popularity 'profile' among our peers rather than because we really care for this person, or we dont want to break off a bad relationship because we find our security and worth in being in the relationship rather than turning to God for our security and worth. Where the motives behind particular choice are wrong (sinful), the choice is definitely not the will of God. Where the motives behind the particular choice are mostly pure, the choice has a higher chance of being the will of God. Most decisions will have resolved itself by this stage or at least narrowed our options, provided we are honest with ourselves. A helpful tip at this stage is to look for a sense of peace. Where a decision is motivate by sinful motives, there will often be a sense of deep unease and lack of peace in the decision. Do also realise however that this unease is the voice of conscience which can be dulled by frequent wilful suppression and disobedience to it.
STEP THREE - LISTEN FOR THE RHEMA (VOICE OF GOD)
When faced with two or more choices, all of which are motivated by mostly pure motives, the next step is to wait on God for His prompting. Here we move into the subjective experience of the spiritual interaction between God and us. The 'rhema' is the voice of God that speaks directly to our hearts and we learn to recognise it by the sudden increase of faith and conviction in that area. Here, we plough through the Word of God, immerse ourselves in it and meditate on it. We attend prayer meetings and ask other to pray for us, all the time, we place ourselves in a still but expectant posture of the mind that God will speak to us and wait for His voice. How God will speak to you individually depends on Him, but it is a common Christian experience for Him to speak though impression, promptings, words or phrases that drop into our minds or jump out from a verse, and a deep sense of abiding peace. The good news is that overtime, practice in this area will increase our sensitivity to the voice of God.
STEP FOUR - GET THE ADVICE AND COUNSEL OF OTHER MATURE CHRISTIANS
Sometime, after God's speaks to us (in STEP THREE) we are quite sure. Othertimes, we may feel God may be prompting us in a certain direction but we are still not sure. Here we seek the advice and counsel of other mature Christians. Advice can come in the form of good practical wisdom about why one university is better than another or which JC is more suitable for you. Counsel can come in the form of prophesy or getting someone who can hear from God to pray for you and to sense what God is telling him about your situation. To be balanced and to minimise error, we need both advice and counsel. To reject either is foolishness.
STEP FIVE - JUST CHOOSE
You have come this far. You have checked your motives and have a sense of peace about two decisions. You have sought and waited on God and you feel He does not seem to disapprove of either decision. You have sought the advice and counsel of mature Christians and both options still seem equally valid. In such a situation, God may be giving you a choice. The will of God may not be a one option or die thing. God actually does give us choices. When God created Adam, He allowed him to choose the name for each animal. In such a situation, both choices are within His will. So relax, just make your choice and commit it to God.
Ending Note: The above steps greatly reduce the error of our decision making and promotes godly and wise decision making. However the frailty of the human heart still means that despite good intentions, sometimes we will get it wrong. But take heed that the grace of God is large enough to accomodate our mistakes. At the end of the day, God works for the good of those who love him and will make all things beautiful in His time.
The following steps apply whether you are trying to decide if you should change jobs, what JC or uni you should go to, whether you should go out and marry this girl or guy, whether you should buy the next ipod when you already have one, or whether you should obey your parents who tell you to stop going to church...essentially, it applies to all moral decisions. The following steps do not apply however to what you should eat for dinner or whether you should wear the red or blue T-shirt.
STEP ONE - DECIDE THAT YOU WILL OBEY GOD
George Mueller writes, "I seek at the beginning to get my heart into such a state that it has no will of its own in regard to a given matter". It is important to decide in our hearts at the very beginning that we will obey God on this issue. If we have already set our minds on a certain option, we should be aware that there is a tremendous capacity for self-deception in us, to try to "force" God's will to somehow support our own decision. Our bias will prevent us from truly hearing from God and we will hear only what we want to hear. Only the obedient heart will hear from God.
STEP TWO - CHECK YOUR MOTIVES
99.9% of all the major decision we make in our lives are moral decision. Even the issue of choosing a partner, or a JC or a new job. These decisions are moral decision because we have hidden motives behind each choice we make. And these motives can either be right (pure) or wrong (sinful) motives. For example, we may want to date a certain girl because it improves our popularity 'profile' among our peers rather than because we really care for this person, or we dont want to break off a bad relationship because we find our security and worth in being in the relationship rather than turning to God for our security and worth. Where the motives behind particular choice are wrong (sinful), the choice is definitely not the will of God. Where the motives behind the particular choice are mostly pure, the choice has a higher chance of being the will of God. Most decisions will have resolved itself by this stage or at least narrowed our options, provided we are honest with ourselves. A helpful tip at this stage is to look for a sense of peace. Where a decision is motivate by sinful motives, there will often be a sense of deep unease and lack of peace in the decision. Do also realise however that this unease is the voice of conscience which can be dulled by frequent wilful suppression and disobedience to it.
STEP THREE - LISTEN FOR THE RHEMA (VOICE OF GOD)
When faced with two or more choices, all of which are motivated by mostly pure motives, the next step is to wait on God for His prompting. Here we move into the subjective experience of the spiritual interaction between God and us. The 'rhema' is the voice of God that speaks directly to our hearts and we learn to recognise it by the sudden increase of faith and conviction in that area. Here, we plough through the Word of God, immerse ourselves in it and meditate on it. We attend prayer meetings and ask other to pray for us, all the time, we place ourselves in a still but expectant posture of the mind that God will speak to us and wait for His voice. How God will speak to you individually depends on Him, but it is a common Christian experience for Him to speak though impression, promptings, words or phrases that drop into our minds or jump out from a verse, and a deep sense of abiding peace. The good news is that overtime, practice in this area will increase our sensitivity to the voice of God.
STEP FOUR - GET THE ADVICE AND COUNSEL OF OTHER MATURE CHRISTIANS
Sometime, after God's speaks to us (in STEP THREE) we are quite sure. Othertimes, we may feel God may be prompting us in a certain direction but we are still not sure. Here we seek the advice and counsel of other mature Christians. Advice can come in the form of good practical wisdom about why one university is better than another or which JC is more suitable for you. Counsel can come in the form of prophesy or getting someone who can hear from God to pray for you and to sense what God is telling him about your situation. To be balanced and to minimise error, we need both advice and counsel. To reject either is foolishness.
STEP FIVE - JUST CHOOSE
You have come this far. You have checked your motives and have a sense of peace about two decisions. You have sought and waited on God and you feel He does not seem to disapprove of either decision. You have sought the advice and counsel of mature Christians and both options still seem equally valid. In such a situation, God may be giving you a choice. The will of God may not be a one option or die thing. God actually does give us choices. When God created Adam, He allowed him to choose the name for each animal. In such a situation, both choices are within His will. So relax, just make your choice and commit it to God.
Ending Note: The above steps greatly reduce the error of our decision making and promotes godly and wise decision making. However the frailty of the human heart still means that despite good intentions, sometimes we will get it wrong. But take heed that the grace of God is large enough to accomodate our mistakes. At the end of the day, God works for the good of those who love him and will make all things beautiful in His time.
Do my choices really affect God's will for my life?
At every step of life, we are asked to make choices. Do we go abroad to study or stay in Singapore? What course do we take in the university or poly? What JC do we go to? Do we stay in the same job or move? Do we date or marry this person or not? For the most part, most of us Christians feel that it is important that we are somehow aligned with God's will in our choices.
On this point, two very different theologies are taught in our churches. Some Christians teach that no matter what choice you make, God's will will definitely be fulfilled in your life. Meaning, if I choose to marry this person or if I choose to quit my job or if I choose to go abroad to study, I will always be in the will of God. For God is sovereign and His perfect will will always prevail. Those who teach such a theology often stem from the Presbyterian or Bible Presbyterian denominations with strong roots in Calvinism. Essentially, the theology stems from the Calvinist teachings that God's will is sovereign and will prevail regardless of man's choice. Our choices do not impact God because He is supreme. This, the Calvinist will extend into issues of predestination by the choice of God, ie. you are saved because God has chosen you; the immutability of God in the face of prayer, ie. prayer does not change God, it changes us; and in the issue at hand, do my choices really affect God's will for my life.
On this issue, others like me take a different theological position, that is, that my choices do really affect God's will for my life. This is in fact the theological position of the Armenians, who emphasise the reality of free choice and corresponding moral responsibility. Let us reason together. If we say our choices do not affect whether God's will is fulfilled or not in our lives, then our choices only have moral consequences, and not destiny consequences. Let me explain. If I say my choice does not affect God's will, that means if I make a choice to date and marry a non-Christian girl, I may be disobeying God if but ultimately His will for my life will be fulfilled. To assert this is true, I feel, is a bit of an absurdity and is inconsistent with scripture. It is absurd because we can never sin and still be within the will of God. Sin cannot be within the will of God.
I would like to discuss three possible scenarios where our choices DO affect the outplay of God's will:
(1) It is God's will for us to be saved. If we reject God and are disqualified from salvation, God's will for our lives is unfulfilled. This is because it is His desire for all man to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth.(1 Tim 2:3,4) In every life who rejects God, the will of God for salvation is not fulfilled in that person's life.
(2) It is God's will for us to serve in a particular ministry. If we are disobedient to our calling, ie. we refuse to serve in a particular ministry for which God has intended for us to serve, God's will for the ministry will remain unaffected because He will simply raise up someone else to do the job. This principle is illustrated in the story of Esther. In Esther 4:14, Mordecai tells Esther, "For if you remain completely silent at this time, relief and deliverance will arise for the Jews from another place, but you and your father's house will perish". Essentially, God's unfolding plan of salvation in the world today will not be thwarted by our disobedience however we in our own lives forfeit the blessings of God by our disobedience. Which brings us to our third scenario.
(3) It is God's will to bless us. However if we are morally disobedient, ie. we persist in unrepentant sin or rebellion against God and His will, we may enter into the discipline of God and suffer the consequences of our sin, thus stifling the blessing of God in our lives for the period of our active rebellion. However if we turn back to God in repentance, we enter into His blessing and thus fulfill His original intent to bless us. In this situation, there are two routes to the final place of blessing - the first is the route of obedience leading to blessing. The second route is the more painful route of disobedience leading to discipline leading to repentance leading to blessing. The final end point is the same in both cases but the alternative routes taken are very different. This principle is illustrated in the story of Jonah. Jonah could have been obedient the first time and gone to Nineveh. However he chose the path of rebellion and fled to Tarshish from the presense of the Lord. Though ultimately he repented and God's will for Him to preach to the people of Nineveh was fulfilled, the route to which Jonah had to take to reach there was one of calamity and distress and discomfort. The same situation is seen in the people of Israel entering the promise land. The 40 years in the wilderness could have been avoided had they obeyed first time round. Two paths to the same end, one straight path of obedience, or the difficult path of disobedience.
In conclusion, we see that our choices do affect the outplay of God's will in our lives. In certain situations, we put ourselves through unecessary pain to get to the same end point. In other situations, where we never repent, we miss the will of God for our lives and God raises up someone else in our place to fulfill His will. Your choice?
On this point, two very different theologies are taught in our churches. Some Christians teach that no matter what choice you make, God's will will definitely be fulfilled in your life. Meaning, if I choose to marry this person or if I choose to quit my job or if I choose to go abroad to study, I will always be in the will of God. For God is sovereign and His perfect will will always prevail. Those who teach such a theology often stem from the Presbyterian or Bible Presbyterian denominations with strong roots in Calvinism. Essentially, the theology stems from the Calvinist teachings that God's will is sovereign and will prevail regardless of man's choice. Our choices do not impact God because He is supreme. This, the Calvinist will extend into issues of predestination by the choice of God, ie. you are saved because God has chosen you; the immutability of God in the face of prayer, ie. prayer does not change God, it changes us; and in the issue at hand, do my choices really affect God's will for my life.
On this issue, others like me take a different theological position, that is, that my choices do really affect God's will for my life. This is in fact the theological position of the Armenians, who emphasise the reality of free choice and corresponding moral responsibility. Let us reason together. If we say our choices do not affect whether God's will is fulfilled or not in our lives, then our choices only have moral consequences, and not destiny consequences. Let me explain. If I say my choice does not affect God's will, that means if I make a choice to date and marry a non-Christian girl, I may be disobeying God if but ultimately His will for my life will be fulfilled. To assert this is true, I feel, is a bit of an absurdity and is inconsistent with scripture. It is absurd because we can never sin and still be within the will of God. Sin cannot be within the will of God.
I would like to discuss three possible scenarios where our choices DO affect the outplay of God's will:
(1) It is God's will for us to be saved. If we reject God and are disqualified from salvation, God's will for our lives is unfulfilled. This is because it is His desire for all man to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth.(1 Tim 2:3,4) In every life who rejects God, the will of God for salvation is not fulfilled in that person's life.
(2) It is God's will for us to serve in a particular ministry. If we are disobedient to our calling, ie. we refuse to serve in a particular ministry for which God has intended for us to serve, God's will for the ministry will remain unaffected because He will simply raise up someone else to do the job. This principle is illustrated in the story of Esther. In Esther 4:14, Mordecai tells Esther, "For if you remain completely silent at this time, relief and deliverance will arise for the Jews from another place, but you and your father's house will perish". Essentially, God's unfolding plan of salvation in the world today will not be thwarted by our disobedience however we in our own lives forfeit the blessings of God by our disobedience. Which brings us to our third scenario.
(3) It is God's will to bless us. However if we are morally disobedient, ie. we persist in unrepentant sin or rebellion against God and His will, we may enter into the discipline of God and suffer the consequences of our sin, thus stifling the blessing of God in our lives for the period of our active rebellion. However if we turn back to God in repentance, we enter into His blessing and thus fulfill His original intent to bless us. In this situation, there are two routes to the final place of blessing - the first is the route of obedience leading to blessing. The second route is the more painful route of disobedience leading to discipline leading to repentance leading to blessing. The final end point is the same in both cases but the alternative routes taken are very different. This principle is illustrated in the story of Jonah. Jonah could have been obedient the first time and gone to Nineveh. However he chose the path of rebellion and fled to Tarshish from the presense of the Lord. Though ultimately he repented and God's will for Him to preach to the people of Nineveh was fulfilled, the route to which Jonah had to take to reach there was one of calamity and distress and discomfort. The same situation is seen in the people of Israel entering the promise land. The 40 years in the wilderness could have been avoided had they obeyed first time round. Two paths to the same end, one straight path of obedience, or the difficult path of disobedience.
In conclusion, we see that our choices do affect the outplay of God's will in our lives. In certain situations, we put ourselves through unecessary pain to get to the same end point. In other situations, where we never repent, we miss the will of God for our lives and God raises up someone else in our place to fulfill His will. Your choice?
Where is the lighthouse?
The sea was charged with anger. The storm raged like a lion out of a cage, smashing its watery fists against the pitiful vessel, tossing and throwing it around the heaving waves. A black fog covered the tempestuous sea like a suffocating blanket, its darkness tempered only by the blinding swords of light that slashed from heaven to earth. At the stern of the vessel, the captain clawed in vain to regain control over his battered vessel. He was well aware that scattered beneath the darkness was a minefield of rocks. Even the slightest of contact with any of them could prove deadly in this madness. O where is the lighthouse? For without it, how can we see in this present darkness?
In an age where the storms of conflicting morality rage, where is the lighthouse? For without it, how can we see in this present darkness? If we were to trace the development of western society through last few centuries, we will see a progressive secularization of society. By secularization, I mean the deliberate removal of religion and God from public life and government. Religion and God is now something relegated to the private sphere. Man is free to believe whatever he chooses in private but woe is the man who tries in public to impose it on his fellow citizens. Don’t talk to me about your Jesus Christ. That is a only matter between you and Him. In this reign of secularism, God is removed from the vocabulary of public life. In the once Christian America, prayer has been banned from schools; Christianity and Jesus Christ cast out from public life. Yet, rather than reduce division, secularism has created even more confusion. For we cannot run away from the issues of right and wrong. What should our stand be on abortion, on capital punishment, on freedom of speech, on the legalizing of casinos, on the recognition of gay rights, etc? How can a society decide on issues of the conscience, on issues of right and wrong? What basis do we have to determine these issues that mean so much to us?
With the dethroning of God from the vocabulary of public life, we have lost our moral point of reference. Every opinion of morality made by anyone is just that, an opinion. We have no basis, no reference point for judging that opinion. Morality is reduced to mere opinion and the conscience to the arbitrariness of feeling. The reason - having relegated religion to the private sphere, to each man his own, no one can now lay claim to a higher moral reference point to which he can judge conflicting moral view points. For a society devoid of a moral reference point, anything can be justified through sufficient persuasion and politics. History has seen the mayhem wrecked by a madman who tore the shackles of conscience from a society in the quest for the super-race. We are still bleeding from the senseless murders of Sep 11 done in the name of religion.
It is a dangerous thing when issues of right and wrong have no other legitimacy than the fact that our leaders say it is or that the majority of man say it is. It is a sad day when a society has to vote on its values. For if there is only you and me in the boat, how do we know who is right? In an age where the storms of conflicting morality rage, where is the lighthouse? For without it, how can we see in this present darkness?
In an age where the storms of conflicting morality rage, where is the lighthouse? For without it, how can we see in this present darkness? If we were to trace the development of western society through last few centuries, we will see a progressive secularization of society. By secularization, I mean the deliberate removal of religion and God from public life and government. Religion and God is now something relegated to the private sphere. Man is free to believe whatever he chooses in private but woe is the man who tries in public to impose it on his fellow citizens. Don’t talk to me about your Jesus Christ. That is a only matter between you and Him. In this reign of secularism, God is removed from the vocabulary of public life. In the once Christian America, prayer has been banned from schools; Christianity and Jesus Christ cast out from public life. Yet, rather than reduce division, secularism has created even more confusion. For we cannot run away from the issues of right and wrong. What should our stand be on abortion, on capital punishment, on freedom of speech, on the legalizing of casinos, on the recognition of gay rights, etc? How can a society decide on issues of the conscience, on issues of right and wrong? What basis do we have to determine these issues that mean so much to us?
With the dethroning of God from the vocabulary of public life, we have lost our moral point of reference. Every opinion of morality made by anyone is just that, an opinion. We have no basis, no reference point for judging that opinion. Morality is reduced to mere opinion and the conscience to the arbitrariness of feeling. The reason - having relegated religion to the private sphere, to each man his own, no one can now lay claim to a higher moral reference point to which he can judge conflicting moral view points. For a society devoid of a moral reference point, anything can be justified through sufficient persuasion and politics. History has seen the mayhem wrecked by a madman who tore the shackles of conscience from a society in the quest for the super-race. We are still bleeding from the senseless murders of Sep 11 done in the name of religion.
It is a dangerous thing when issues of right and wrong have no other legitimacy than the fact that our leaders say it is or that the majority of man say it is. It is a sad day when a society has to vote on its values. For if there is only you and me in the boat, how do we know who is right? In an age where the storms of conflicting morality rage, where is the lighthouse? For without it, how can we see in this present darkness?
Breaking Satanic Strongholds
God has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in Christ Jesus (Eph 1:3). The Cross has bought freedom, blessing, healing and grace. Yet we see so little of it in our families, our schools, our churches and our lives. Spiritual blindness prevails in our society and our schools. Many Christians suffer under demonic oppression and addiction to sin and negative emotions. Families and lives are progressively destroyed. Dissatisfied with our current state of existence, we long to enter into the 'fullness' of God and experience revival. I have begun to realise that the main obstacles that prevents the rain of blessings and grace from reaching our lives are satanic strongholds and bondages. For the blessing and grace of God to reach our lives, these strongholds and bondages must be broken. There is no other way. To understand and deal with satanic strongholds and bondages, it is important to first understand how Satan works.
There are three primary sources of satanic strongholds and bondages. These are (1) Unrepentant Sin, (2) Generational Curses, and (3) Lack of Knowledge of the Truth.
Unrepentant sin forms the single most prevalent causes of satanic bondage. An unrepentant sin is a cherished sin that we know is wrong but persist stubbornly to hold on to it. We refuse to repent and renounce the sin because we enjoy the pleasure it brings. But what we are not aware of is that very soon, that sin becomes a bondage, trapping and enslaving us. We loose control over this area of our lives, unable to resist temptation when it comes, descending into addiction and bondage. Sometimes, unrepentant sin is fueled by false justifications. We convince ourselves of the lack of seriousness of the sin, justifying our actions behind some perverted rationalising until we are able to sin without feeling any guilt. At other times, we fall into a helpless cycle sin, confess, sin, confess yet never feeling that God has really forgiven us. Each time, we grow more convinced that if we do it one more time, we will cross the line into eternal damnation and apostasy. Soon the Accuser hits us with his wrecking ball of condemnation, destroying our hope that God will ever forgive us again. Our faith is then shipwrecked on the rocks of condemnation.
The second cause of satanic strongholds is generational curses. Exodus 20:4 tells us that idolatry of the father brings a curse to the third and fourth generations. When our ancestors engage in idol worship, ancestor worship or engage in temple medium activities, or any manner of false religion, this causes the generations that follow to be brought under a curse. These curses may manifest themselves in hereditary disease, illness or deformity, in crushing and continuing poverty, in early and sudden deaths among family members, or acute spiritual blindness and non-receptivity to the gospel.
The third cause of satanic strongholds is the lack of knowledge of the truth. God pronounces in Hosea 4:6 that "my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge." The cross brings a message of salvation, blessing and freedom. But our entire society and system is engineered by the devil to hide this truth from man. For if man were to know the truth, the truth will set him free (John 8:32). Our generation is one that is pervaded by sensationalism and sensualism. The mass media of television, movies, advertisement, computer and video games bombards us with sensations and sound and pictures and information, yet cleverly drowning out truth in the process. Our academia has cast out God from intellectual thought, replacing Him with the empty foolishness of rationalism and existentialism. "God is dead... we have killed him" (The Parable of the Madman, Nietzsche, 1882). We must open our eyes to see that there is a satanic 'mind' behind the systems of this world, that we live in a world controlled by the 'prince of this world'. There is nothing is neutral about contemporary society. Contemporary society is engineered to the hiding of the truth about God, to the closing of the minds of our youths and to the ultimate destruction of our souls.
The path to the destruction of satanic bondages and strongholds is threefold. (1) Warfare prayer, (2) Repentance, and (3) Truth Affirmation.
In warfare prayer, we take the authority of the Name of Jesus and pray against strongholds and bondages. For unto us has been given the keys to the kingdom of heaven that whatever we bind on earth shall be bound in heaven and whatever we let loose on earth shall be let loose in heaven (Matt 16:19). Unto us has been committed the authority to trample on scorpions and serpents and to overcome all the power of the enemy and they will by no means harm us (Luke 10:19). In warfare prayer, we put on the full armour of God so that in the day of battle, we will be able to stand (Eph 6:13-17). In warfare prayer, we do not speak to God, but to the demonic and satanic principalities of this world, casting them down in the Name of Jesus.
The next path to the destruction of satanic strongholds is repentance. As unrepentent sin and idolatry form the main roots of the strongholds, repentance cancels of the power and curse of sin and uproots the stronghold. To repent, there is need to first identify the root sin underlying the stronghold. I believe that the root sin behind our Nation is the sin of insignificance. We are a small island trying to survive in a large world, and the spirit of anxiety and fear of loss pervades ever level of our society, enslaving us in crushing strife. To those in my church, I believe the root sin that is preventing revival from coming to our church is the sin of judgementalism. We judge and criticize and ostracize. We form cliques and exclude others, emasculating agape love with our middle and upper class pride. There is a need for us to repent as a church, to repent as a nation for these enslaving sins. There is a need for true Christians to stand in the gap on behalf of our nation, our schools, our churches and our families and repent before the throne of God for the sins of our nation, our schools, our churches and our families. Let us fall to our knees and pray to the Holy Spirit to reveal the sins of our generation. He who has ears to hear, let him then hear what the Spirit is saying to the church.
Lastly, we must affirm the truth to set us free. The battle for our generation is for the minds of our youths. We must therefore preach the word in season and out of season. We cast down every argument and high thing that sets itself up against the knowledge of God (2 Cor 10:4,5) We must be ever ready to give a reason for our faith, to defend our faith in our schools, our colleges, our universities and in our workplaces. We must train our minds and saturate our churches with the power of the Word, transforming our minds to the minds of Christ. For only then will we know the truth and the truth will set us free.
There is a spiritual war that is taking place in the spiritual realm for dominion over heaven and earth and over the souls of man. We have to duty to reclaim our lives, our families, our schools, our workplace, our churches and our society back to God. For Christ has already won the victory.
There are three primary sources of satanic strongholds and bondages. These are (1) Unrepentant Sin, (2) Generational Curses, and (3) Lack of Knowledge of the Truth.
Unrepentant sin forms the single most prevalent causes of satanic bondage. An unrepentant sin is a cherished sin that we know is wrong but persist stubbornly to hold on to it. We refuse to repent and renounce the sin because we enjoy the pleasure it brings. But what we are not aware of is that very soon, that sin becomes a bondage, trapping and enslaving us. We loose control over this area of our lives, unable to resist temptation when it comes, descending into addiction and bondage. Sometimes, unrepentant sin is fueled by false justifications. We convince ourselves of the lack of seriousness of the sin, justifying our actions behind some perverted rationalising until we are able to sin without feeling any guilt. At other times, we fall into a helpless cycle sin, confess, sin, confess yet never feeling that God has really forgiven us. Each time, we grow more convinced that if we do it one more time, we will cross the line into eternal damnation and apostasy. Soon the Accuser hits us with his wrecking ball of condemnation, destroying our hope that God will ever forgive us again. Our faith is then shipwrecked on the rocks of condemnation.
The second cause of satanic strongholds is generational curses. Exodus 20:4 tells us that idolatry of the father brings a curse to the third and fourth generations. When our ancestors engage in idol worship, ancestor worship or engage in temple medium activities, or any manner of false religion, this causes the generations that follow to be brought under a curse. These curses may manifest themselves in hereditary disease, illness or deformity, in crushing and continuing poverty, in early and sudden deaths among family members, or acute spiritual blindness and non-receptivity to the gospel.
The third cause of satanic strongholds is the lack of knowledge of the truth. God pronounces in Hosea 4:6 that "my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge." The cross brings a message of salvation, blessing and freedom. But our entire society and system is engineered by the devil to hide this truth from man. For if man were to know the truth, the truth will set him free (John 8:32). Our generation is one that is pervaded by sensationalism and sensualism. The mass media of television, movies, advertisement, computer and video games bombards us with sensations and sound and pictures and information, yet cleverly drowning out truth in the process. Our academia has cast out God from intellectual thought, replacing Him with the empty foolishness of rationalism and existentialism. "God is dead... we have killed him" (The Parable of the Madman, Nietzsche, 1882). We must open our eyes to see that there is a satanic 'mind' behind the systems of this world, that we live in a world controlled by the 'prince of this world'. There is nothing is neutral about contemporary society. Contemporary society is engineered to the hiding of the truth about God, to the closing of the minds of our youths and to the ultimate destruction of our souls.
The path to the destruction of satanic bondages and strongholds is threefold. (1) Warfare prayer, (2) Repentance, and (3) Truth Affirmation.
In warfare prayer, we take the authority of the Name of Jesus and pray against strongholds and bondages. For unto us has been given the keys to the kingdom of heaven that whatever we bind on earth shall be bound in heaven and whatever we let loose on earth shall be let loose in heaven (Matt 16:19). Unto us has been committed the authority to trample on scorpions and serpents and to overcome all the power of the enemy and they will by no means harm us (Luke 10:19). In warfare prayer, we put on the full armour of God so that in the day of battle, we will be able to stand (Eph 6:13-17). In warfare prayer, we do not speak to God, but to the demonic and satanic principalities of this world, casting them down in the Name of Jesus.
The next path to the destruction of satanic strongholds is repentance. As unrepentent sin and idolatry form the main roots of the strongholds, repentance cancels of the power and curse of sin and uproots the stronghold. To repent, there is need to first identify the root sin underlying the stronghold. I believe that the root sin behind our Nation is the sin of insignificance. We are a small island trying to survive in a large world, and the spirit of anxiety and fear of loss pervades ever level of our society, enslaving us in crushing strife. To those in my church, I believe the root sin that is preventing revival from coming to our church is the sin of judgementalism. We judge and criticize and ostracize. We form cliques and exclude others, emasculating agape love with our middle and upper class pride. There is a need for us to repent as a church, to repent as a nation for these enslaving sins. There is a need for true Christians to stand in the gap on behalf of our nation, our schools, our churches and our families and repent before the throne of God for the sins of our nation, our schools, our churches and our families. Let us fall to our knees and pray to the Holy Spirit to reveal the sins of our generation. He who has ears to hear, let him then hear what the Spirit is saying to the church.
Lastly, we must affirm the truth to set us free. The battle for our generation is for the minds of our youths. We must therefore preach the word in season and out of season. We cast down every argument and high thing that sets itself up against the knowledge of God (2 Cor 10:4,5) We must be ever ready to give a reason for our faith, to defend our faith in our schools, our colleges, our universities and in our workplaces. We must train our minds and saturate our churches with the power of the Word, transforming our minds to the minds of Christ. For only then will we know the truth and the truth will set us free.
There is a spiritual war that is taking place in the spiritual realm for dominion over heaven and earth and over the souls of man. We have to duty to reclaim our lives, our families, our schools, our workplace, our churches and our society back to God. For Christ has already won the victory.
Battleground Earth
There is an unseen war raging in the spiritual dimension, a war more deadly than you and I can ever imagine. Underneath the surface of world politics, cross-cultural missions and church ministries, the struggle for dominion rages on. Yet many of us go on living our mundane lives, oblivious to the deadly struggle beneath. The stakes of this battle: dominion for heaven and earth and the souls of man. The forces: the Kingdom of God vs the kingdom of darkness. Here is how the story unfolds...
From eternity past, since the creation of heaven, the sovereignty of the Almighty was unchallenged. God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit was all in all. The reign of the Holy Trinity supreme over the vast creation. Then there was Lucifer, the archangel of worship, the anointed cherub whose glorious wing covered the throne of God (Eze 28:11-15). He was perfect in all his ways, the most powerful and most glorious of the angels. Till the day pride was found in him. His heart was lifted up because of his beauty. His glory corrupted him. And Lucifer proclaimed "I will exalt my throne above the stars of God. I will be like God." With him, a third of heaven rebelled. A war waged in the heavens. Michael, the archangel of war fought against the Lucifer and his fallen angels and quashed the rebellion (Rev 12:7-9). Lucifer, the once great archangel, was cast to the dark and formless earth to await final judgment.
In the midst of the deformed earth, God created man, the pinnacle of creation. And God recreated the earth (Gen 1:2,3). To man was given dominion over all of creation (Gen 1:26, Psalms 8:4-6). To man, the only created being who reflected the very likeness and glory of God, nobility was conferred. But that dominion was shortlived. Like Lucifer, man chose the path of self-glorification and independence. "You will be like God" (Gen 3:5) said the tempter, and man ate of the fruit. The fall of man brought sin and death into the beautiful earth, condemning it to decay. Now in bondage to sin and death, man forfeited the dominion of the earth to the tempter. Seizing dominion, Lucifer, now called Satan, installed himself as the prince of this world, the "kosmokrator" (Greek: ruler of the world), a title even the Christ Himself acknowledged (see John 12:31). The whole world was now under the dominion of the prince of darkness (1 John 5:19)
Yet the fall of man had long been prophesied and the Christ ordained before the creation of the world to execute the most mind-boggling plan of salvation and conquest creation had ever seen. Into the dominion of Satan, the Messiah was born. For the first time, was born a man Satan had no control over (John 14:30). As that God-man grew, the prince of darkness sensed his impending downfall. Satan tried unsuccessfully to derail the plan of salvation by offering the Messiah the path to self-glory, but faithfulness triumphed that day in the desert. As Christ entered his ministry, demons were cast out, the sick healed, and the truth of salvation preached. With each exorcised demon, with each converted believer, soul by soul was freed from the dominion of darkness and the dominion of God re-established in that life. The kingdom of God had come upon the kingdom of darkness. The messianic invasion had begun. Yet Satan plotted and schemed, gaining control of the hearts of one of the Messiah's 12 disciples, Judas, moving him to betray his Lord to death. Yet the cross proved to be a catastrophic miscalculation on the part of the unholy one. As the nails were driven into the hands of the Messiah on that bloodstained cross, those nails proved to be the final nail in Satan's coffin. As the Messiah uttered his last breath and cried "it is finished", Satan was finished. What Satan thought was to be his greatest triumph by killing the Messiah, turned out to be his greatest undoing. With the shedding of sinless blood and the sacrifice of the perfect life, sin was wiped away forever. The curse of sin and death was broken over the souls of man and the dominion of Satan over the souls of man disarmed (Col 2:15). Satan was made a public spectacle.
"All authority on heaven and earth has been given to me" the resurrected and victorious Christ proclaimed (Mat 28:18) The dominion of heaven and earth and over the souls of man now lay in the hands of the Messiah. At His name, every knee would bow in heaven and on earth and under the earth and every tongue would confess that Jesus is Lord (Phil 2:9-11). Yet in these end times, the battle rages on for dominion for Satan refuses to acknowledge the dominion of Christ. Very soon, the anti-Christ will rise and for 3 and a half years persecute the saints and all who do not bow their knee to him. He is the Beast, a representation of violence and cruelty, and his number is the number of man: His number is 666. Satan will make one final stand against the God of heaven and His chosen people. At the end of the great tribulation, the anti-Christ will gather all the armies of the world under his Satanic control to lay siege against the chosen of God, the greatest demonstration of military might the world had ever seen, in a place called Armageddon. And scripture reveals that in that hour, the heavens will open and Christ will return with the armies of heaven. On him will bear the glorious name, the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords (Rev 19:11-21). His feet will touch the mount of olives (Zech 12:4). And he will overcome the beast and his armies by His very Word (2 Thess 2:8). As the King speaks, a plague will fall upon the armies of the beast and their very flesh will dissolve from their bones (Zech 14:12). There will be wholesale carnage of the armies of the beast and anyone who dares challenge the authority of God and of His Christ. On that day, the kingdoms of this world will become the kingdoms of our Lord and of His Christ and He shall reign forever and ever (Rev 11:15). And the end will come, and the victorious Christ will enter the throne room of heaven and deliver the kingdom to God the Father, that God may once again be all in all (1 Cor 15:24-28).
Until the time of the end, the battle for dominion rages in heaven and on earth and over the souls of man. Though Jesus has won it by right, Satan continues to hold families and churches and nations in bondage. To us has been given the keys to the kingdom of heaven (Matt 16:19), the mark of the supreme authority of Christ. Our task, to enforce the dominion and authority of Christ against Satan and forces of darkness. For in this last days, Christ will build His church and the gates of Hell will not overcome it (Matt 16:18). The time has come for the people of God to arise and to claim back the ground seized illegally by the devil. In the Name of Jesus, we break the dominion of Satan over our families, our schools, our churches, our nations and our lives and bring them into the glorious freedom of Christ. We submit ourselves to the Lord and resist the devil, and he will flee from us (James 4:7).
You see my friends, there is a battle raging over heaven and earth and for the souls of man. And there are only two sides. Jesus says if we are not for him, we are against him. There is no place for indifference. Which side are you fighting for?
From eternity past, since the creation of heaven, the sovereignty of the Almighty was unchallenged. God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit was all in all. The reign of the Holy Trinity supreme over the vast creation. Then there was Lucifer, the archangel of worship, the anointed cherub whose glorious wing covered the throne of God (Eze 28:11-15). He was perfect in all his ways, the most powerful and most glorious of the angels. Till the day pride was found in him. His heart was lifted up because of his beauty. His glory corrupted him. And Lucifer proclaimed "I will exalt my throne above the stars of God. I will be like God." With him, a third of heaven rebelled. A war waged in the heavens. Michael, the archangel of war fought against the Lucifer and his fallen angels and quashed the rebellion (Rev 12:7-9). Lucifer, the once great archangel, was cast to the dark and formless earth to await final judgment.
In the midst of the deformed earth, God created man, the pinnacle of creation. And God recreated the earth (Gen 1:2,3). To man was given dominion over all of creation (Gen 1:26, Psalms 8:4-6). To man, the only created being who reflected the very likeness and glory of God, nobility was conferred. But that dominion was shortlived. Like Lucifer, man chose the path of self-glorification and independence. "You will be like God" (Gen 3:5) said the tempter, and man ate of the fruit. The fall of man brought sin and death into the beautiful earth, condemning it to decay. Now in bondage to sin and death, man forfeited the dominion of the earth to the tempter. Seizing dominion, Lucifer, now called Satan, installed himself as the prince of this world, the "kosmokrator" (Greek: ruler of the world), a title even the Christ Himself acknowledged (see John 12:31). The whole world was now under the dominion of the prince of darkness (1 John 5:19)
Yet the fall of man had long been prophesied and the Christ ordained before the creation of the world to execute the most mind-boggling plan of salvation and conquest creation had ever seen. Into the dominion of Satan, the Messiah was born. For the first time, was born a man Satan had no control over (John 14:30). As that God-man grew, the prince of darkness sensed his impending downfall. Satan tried unsuccessfully to derail the plan of salvation by offering the Messiah the path to self-glory, but faithfulness triumphed that day in the desert. As Christ entered his ministry, demons were cast out, the sick healed, and the truth of salvation preached. With each exorcised demon, with each converted believer, soul by soul was freed from the dominion of darkness and the dominion of God re-established in that life. The kingdom of God had come upon the kingdom of darkness. The messianic invasion had begun. Yet Satan plotted and schemed, gaining control of the hearts of one of the Messiah's 12 disciples, Judas, moving him to betray his Lord to death. Yet the cross proved to be a catastrophic miscalculation on the part of the unholy one. As the nails were driven into the hands of the Messiah on that bloodstained cross, those nails proved to be the final nail in Satan's coffin. As the Messiah uttered his last breath and cried "it is finished", Satan was finished. What Satan thought was to be his greatest triumph by killing the Messiah, turned out to be his greatest undoing. With the shedding of sinless blood and the sacrifice of the perfect life, sin was wiped away forever. The curse of sin and death was broken over the souls of man and the dominion of Satan over the souls of man disarmed (Col 2:15). Satan was made a public spectacle.
"All authority on heaven and earth has been given to me" the resurrected and victorious Christ proclaimed (Mat 28:18) The dominion of heaven and earth and over the souls of man now lay in the hands of the Messiah. At His name, every knee would bow in heaven and on earth and under the earth and every tongue would confess that Jesus is Lord (Phil 2:9-11). Yet in these end times, the battle rages on for dominion for Satan refuses to acknowledge the dominion of Christ. Very soon, the anti-Christ will rise and for 3 and a half years persecute the saints and all who do not bow their knee to him. He is the Beast, a representation of violence and cruelty, and his number is the number of man: His number is 666. Satan will make one final stand against the God of heaven and His chosen people. At the end of the great tribulation, the anti-Christ will gather all the armies of the world under his Satanic control to lay siege against the chosen of God, the greatest demonstration of military might the world had ever seen, in a place called Armageddon. And scripture reveals that in that hour, the heavens will open and Christ will return with the armies of heaven. On him will bear the glorious name, the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords (Rev 19:11-21). His feet will touch the mount of olives (Zech 12:4). And he will overcome the beast and his armies by His very Word (2 Thess 2:8). As the King speaks, a plague will fall upon the armies of the beast and their very flesh will dissolve from their bones (Zech 14:12). There will be wholesale carnage of the armies of the beast and anyone who dares challenge the authority of God and of His Christ. On that day, the kingdoms of this world will become the kingdoms of our Lord and of His Christ and He shall reign forever and ever (Rev 11:15). And the end will come, and the victorious Christ will enter the throne room of heaven and deliver the kingdom to God the Father, that God may once again be all in all (1 Cor 15:24-28).
Until the time of the end, the battle for dominion rages in heaven and on earth and over the souls of man. Though Jesus has won it by right, Satan continues to hold families and churches and nations in bondage. To us has been given the keys to the kingdom of heaven (Matt 16:19), the mark of the supreme authority of Christ. Our task, to enforce the dominion and authority of Christ against Satan and forces of darkness. For in this last days, Christ will build His church and the gates of Hell will not overcome it (Matt 16:18). The time has come for the people of God to arise and to claim back the ground seized illegally by the devil. In the Name of Jesus, we break the dominion of Satan over our families, our schools, our churches, our nations and our lives and bring them into the glorious freedom of Christ. We submit ourselves to the Lord and resist the devil, and he will flee from us (James 4:7).
You see my friends, there is a battle raging over heaven and earth and for the souls of man. And there are only two sides. Jesus says if we are not for him, we are against him. There is no place for indifference. Which side are you fighting for?
The slavery of freedom
That is a pretty ironic statement, "the slavery of freedom". Many of us seek freedom. The freedom to enforce our individual rights, the freedom to exercise our preference and choice, the freedom to express our thoughts without fear of reprisal, the freedom to enjoy life the way we want to. Freedom is equated with happiness. The greater the freedom, the greater the happiness. Every teenager growing up in every home across the world sits his bedroom looking out of the window at the world and dreams of freedom. Sons and daughters fight and rebel against their parents to win their freedom. The right to go where we want. The right to do what we want. The right to mix with whoever we chose. After all, freedom equals happiness. All across the world, men fight for freedom, the freedom of self-governance, the freedom of civil liberties, the freedom of democracy. After all, freedom equals happiness. Yet what are we really fighting for, this illusive freedom? When we finally seize that freedom, are we rewarded with happiness? Is life and society all that better once freedom is wrenched from the jaws of restraint?
Absolute freedom, my friend, does not equal happiness. The reason - for all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. Deep within the heart of man lies a terrible curse, the curse of sin. Like a cancerous disease, sin controls, consumes and slowly destroys. Its devastating effects are only slowed by the moral restraints of religion and the legal restraints of civil society. When man is left to his own devices, when there absolute freedom, like a car parked on a slope with the handbrake suddenly lifted, man inevitably slides to anarchy and society into destruction. The selfishness of the human heart will only use freedom to disregard another. The lustfulness of the human heart will only use freedom to violate another. The pride of the human heart will only use freedom to destroy another.
Freedom is not the right to do what you want. True freedom is the right to do what you ought. True freedom is moral freedom - the ability to do what is morally right. In God's moral universe, anything else is slavery. I have seen family after family in court destroyed because of the selfishness of the human heart. I have seen youths in bondage to gangs, immorality, self-mutilation, violence and substance abuse. To say that it is freedom to express themselves in this way is to mock the very meaning of freedom. The path of happiness lies to the one who does the will of God. For that is the entire duty of man (Ecc 12:13).
So the next time we decide to fight our parents, our bosses, our leaders and our government for freedom, let's ask ourselves what we are actually fighting for.
Absolute freedom, my friend, does not equal happiness. The reason - for all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. Deep within the heart of man lies a terrible curse, the curse of sin. Like a cancerous disease, sin controls, consumes and slowly destroys. Its devastating effects are only slowed by the moral restraints of religion and the legal restraints of civil society. When man is left to his own devices, when there absolute freedom, like a car parked on a slope with the handbrake suddenly lifted, man inevitably slides to anarchy and society into destruction. The selfishness of the human heart will only use freedom to disregard another. The lustfulness of the human heart will only use freedom to violate another. The pride of the human heart will only use freedom to destroy another.
Freedom is not the right to do what you want. True freedom is the right to do what you ought. True freedom is moral freedom - the ability to do what is morally right. In God's moral universe, anything else is slavery. I have seen family after family in court destroyed because of the selfishness of the human heart. I have seen youths in bondage to gangs, immorality, self-mutilation, violence and substance abuse. To say that it is freedom to express themselves in this way is to mock the very meaning of freedom. The path of happiness lies to the one who does the will of God. For that is the entire duty of man (Ecc 12:13).
So the next time we decide to fight our parents, our bosses, our leaders and our government for freedom, let's ask ourselves what we are actually fighting for.
God is interested in the secular
It's been almost 5 years now since I left law school to work. The calling to become a full time pastor has always been a consideration at the back of my mind, although at this point of my life, I dont feel called to do so. Well not yet anyway. So I entered the secular world, pursued a secular career and relegated my ministry to the weekends. Was I somehow less of a Christian for becoming a lawyer rather than a pastor? Many of us struggle to make our Christianity compatible with our secular endevours, whether studies or work. Somehow we feel that God would be more pleased if we spent all our time in church, or ministry or evangelising or preaching etc. Time spent in school or in the office is time spent away from God. Interestingly, in the book the Contemporary Christian, the great Christian writer John Stott writes, "the God many of us worship is altogether too religious." This is true of many of us. We feel that God is only interested in church services and evangelism and other religious stuff. Exams and work are 'secular' things which God has no concern of. And if it is not his concern, there is no reason why should he help us in our studies or in our work. In fact, we almost expect him to be displease if we serve less in church because of our studies or work. Then I came across Col 3:23,24 -
"And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ."
These verses clearly tell us that God is as interested in our secular pursuits as he is in our church service. Paul was talking about servants obeying their masters, clearly a very 'secular' thing. And what is even more surprising is that he says we will be rewarded for this 'secular' efforts! John Stott goes on to write "The whole of our life belongs to God and is part of his calling, both before conversion and outside religion. We must not imagine that God first became interested in us only when we were converted, or that now he is interested only in the religious bits of our lives." Many Christians feel that if there is a toss-up between serving in YM or church, and their studies or work, ministry should take priority. We must realise however that there are seasons in our lives. If you are a student, then you been called to be a student at this point of your life. Your calling is then to honour God in your studies. If you are a lawyer or a doctor, then it is your calling to be a lawyer or a doctor at this point of your life. And we are to honour God by using the abilities and position that we have to serve him.
When we begin to shine the light of eternity on our secular pursuits, we will begin to see them as God sees them. We study and work hard, but we do so with the perspective that we are working for something greater than that A grade or the next promotion. We do so because we are stewards of the opportunities, abilities and talents God has given us, and are therefore responsible to develop and use them for His glory and for the futherance of His kingdom. We are able to put work and studies in their proper place, not to use them for self-glorification but in surrender to His eternal purpose and perfect plan. It is amazing then cos in the grand scheme of eternity, there is eternal reward for every secular thing we do on this earth. That includes passing your Chinese exam...
"And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ."
These verses clearly tell us that God is as interested in our secular pursuits as he is in our church service. Paul was talking about servants obeying their masters, clearly a very 'secular' thing. And what is even more surprising is that he says we will be rewarded for this 'secular' efforts! John Stott goes on to write "The whole of our life belongs to God and is part of his calling, both before conversion and outside religion. We must not imagine that God first became interested in us only when we were converted, or that now he is interested only in the religious bits of our lives." Many Christians feel that if there is a toss-up between serving in YM or church, and their studies or work, ministry should take priority. We must realise however that there are seasons in our lives. If you are a student, then you been called to be a student at this point of your life. Your calling is then to honour God in your studies. If you are a lawyer or a doctor, then it is your calling to be a lawyer or a doctor at this point of your life. And we are to honour God by using the abilities and position that we have to serve him.
When we begin to shine the light of eternity on our secular pursuits, we will begin to see them as God sees them. We study and work hard, but we do so with the perspective that we are working for something greater than that A grade or the next promotion. We do so because we are stewards of the opportunities, abilities and talents God has given us, and are therefore responsible to develop and use them for His glory and for the futherance of His kingdom. We are able to put work and studies in their proper place, not to use them for self-glorification but in surrender to His eternal purpose and perfect plan. It is amazing then cos in the grand scheme of eternity, there is eternal reward for every secular thing we do on this earth. That includes passing your Chinese exam...
The well is deep.
There is an aching emptiness in each of us. Scars and wounds in our hearts caused by hurt and rejection. Many of us have been hurt by the people closest to us, people we look to to protect us only to be betrayed and disappointed by their hurtful words and selfish actions. Sometimes, these scars and wounds are so deep that we do not even realise they are there. We do not realise that our entire psychological set-up has developed in response to those emotional scars and wounds. To fear being hurt again, some of us build huge defensive barriers, not allowing ourselves to ever to vulnerable again. Others strive for power and achievement to compensate for the shame within. Still others turn to ddictive and destructive behaviour to sooth our wounds and escape from facing the intolerable pain within. Often the most driven people are the most insecure. The most powerful and accomplished are the most fearful of insufficiency. The most charismatic and charming are the most fearful of rejection. When we open the window to our souls, we realise that the mechanisms and wires that run beneath the surface are far from God-pleasing. There is a cry within each of us for love and acceptance and protection. Yet all our attempts at false comforts to provide for ourselves these things only leave us more insecure, more fearful and more helpless.
"The well is deep", said the Samaritan woman to Jesus. How will you ever be able to fill it? How will you ever be able to fill chasms and voids of my emptiness within? Who can ever heal these deeply buried hurts and pain? Yet the love of God is like a fountain of living water, not only enough to fill the deep wells of hurt, but to cause it to overflow in love. When we encounter the person of Jesus, bit by bit, little by little, those wells are filled. The embrace of His love, the security of His presence, the joy of His approval. He will wipe away every tear from our eyes.
"The well is deep", said the Samaritan woman to Jesus. How will you ever be able to fill it? How will you ever be able to fill chasms and voids of my emptiness within? Who can ever heal these deeply buried hurts and pain? Yet the love of God is like a fountain of living water, not only enough to fill the deep wells of hurt, but to cause it to overflow in love. When we encounter the person of Jesus, bit by bit, little by little, those wells are filled. The embrace of His love, the security of His presence, the joy of His approval. He will wipe away every tear from our eyes.
Is Christianity the only true way?
How can we be so presumptuous to say that we are right and all else is wrong? Are we actually saying that all those sincere well-meaning people of other faiths have no hope? Is God fair? After all, we all know a good and sincere person who is not a Christian? Can we really accept that he or she will go to hell? That seems so offensive. Many struggle with questions of faith such as these, offended at the exclusivity of the Christian claims. How can such exclusive claims sit compatibly with a loving God?
The starting premise in dealing with a thorny issue like this must be an objective and impartial search for the truth. We must recognise that truth may at times be hard to accept and even offensive. Telling someone he is dying is may be difficult but if it is the truth, to say anything else would be lie. To water down truth so that it becomes easier to swallow is to contaminate and pervert our search for truth. Consensus or social acceptability can never be a requirement for truth. We cannot reject truth simply because it does not sit with our preferences. That will only put us on the slippery slope to self-deception.
Secondly, any search for truth must be premised on the fact that truth is objective, that there is only one truth and that truth is similarly applicable to everyone. Two contradictory state of affairs cannot both be true at the same time. Something cannot be true for me but not necessarily true for you. For example, a pen in my hand exists for me. It cannot exist for me and not exist for you at the same time. We must recognise that there is only ONE TRUTH and anything that contradicts that one truth is untruth. If the pen exists, it exists for everyone. Looking at all the religions in the world, we observe that they each make different and contradictory statements about God and existence and salvation. Christianity speaks of salvation by grace because salvation by a moral does not work. Islam and Buddhism and other religions speak of salvation by obedience to a moral code. Either Christianity is right and Islam and Buddhism is wrong on this point, or Islam and Buddhism is right and Christianity is wrong. Christianity and Islam speak of one supreme God. Buddhism speaks of no God, but that reality is an illusion. Either Christianity and Islam are right or Buddhism is right. Both cannot be right. Christianity says that God created the world but is not part of it. Hinduism says that God is part of this world for all is God and God is all. Either Christianity is right or Hinduism is right. Both cannott be right. From the examples I have shown above, it is clear that only the ignorant would dare to assert that all religions are the same. Their inherent differences make them inherently contradictory. We are forced therefore to decide which is the truth to the necessary exclusion of the others. We cannot have our cake and eat it as well.
The question then becomes not whether the truth of the Christian assertions of exclusivity are socially acceptable or easy to swallow. The question becomes IS IT TRUE? That is something each of us must make a decision and choice on. We cannot abdicate or run away from choice. Each of us is forced either to accept or reject this choice. To not accept Christianity is to reject it. And either way, if this is the truth, then accepting or rejecting it brings with it consequences. If this is the truth, then our choice will determine our issue of heaven or hell. When we stand before God on the day of judgment, the fact that the truth was difficult to swallow and therefore we rejected it is not a defence that we can raise.
The starting premise in dealing with a thorny issue like this must be an objective and impartial search for the truth. We must recognise that truth may at times be hard to accept and even offensive. Telling someone he is dying is may be difficult but if it is the truth, to say anything else would be lie. To water down truth so that it becomes easier to swallow is to contaminate and pervert our search for truth. Consensus or social acceptability can never be a requirement for truth. We cannot reject truth simply because it does not sit with our preferences. That will only put us on the slippery slope to self-deception.
Secondly, any search for truth must be premised on the fact that truth is objective, that there is only one truth and that truth is similarly applicable to everyone. Two contradictory state of affairs cannot both be true at the same time. Something cannot be true for me but not necessarily true for you. For example, a pen in my hand exists for me. It cannot exist for me and not exist for you at the same time. We must recognise that there is only ONE TRUTH and anything that contradicts that one truth is untruth. If the pen exists, it exists for everyone. Looking at all the religions in the world, we observe that they each make different and contradictory statements about God and existence and salvation. Christianity speaks of salvation by grace because salvation by a moral does not work. Islam and Buddhism and other religions speak of salvation by obedience to a moral code. Either Christianity is right and Islam and Buddhism is wrong on this point, or Islam and Buddhism is right and Christianity is wrong. Christianity and Islam speak of one supreme God. Buddhism speaks of no God, but that reality is an illusion. Either Christianity and Islam are right or Buddhism is right. Both cannot be right. Christianity says that God created the world but is not part of it. Hinduism says that God is part of this world for all is God and God is all. Either Christianity is right or Hinduism is right. Both cannott be right. From the examples I have shown above, it is clear that only the ignorant would dare to assert that all religions are the same. Their inherent differences make them inherently contradictory. We are forced therefore to decide which is the truth to the necessary exclusion of the others. We cannot have our cake and eat it as well.
The question then becomes not whether the truth of the Christian assertions of exclusivity are socially acceptable or easy to swallow. The question becomes IS IT TRUE? That is something each of us must make a decision and choice on. We cannot abdicate or run away from choice. Each of us is forced either to accept or reject this choice. To not accept Christianity is to reject it. And either way, if this is the truth, then accepting or rejecting it brings with it consequences. If this is the truth, then our choice will determine our issue of heaven or hell. When we stand before God on the day of judgment, the fact that the truth was difficult to swallow and therefore we rejected it is not a defence that we can raise.
Of truth and lies
In every case I see in court, we have two completely different versions of the same event. This means that somebody, having sworn on the bible or given oath, is lying through his teeth. Makes me wonder how a person can get to that stage where he can lie with a straight face without any feeling of guilt or conscience. Is it the progressive suppression of conscience overtime? Is it the rationalising away of the guilt by convincing oneself that there is a good justification to lie? Or is it selective memory that causes us to want to believe something so badly that we rehearse ourselves into thinking it is the truth? Truth is such a precious thing yet such a scarce commodity in our world today. We have so much information, yet so little truth. The media and the press twist and turn truth to sell a story or promote a product. Politicans spin truth through manipulation of statistics and calculated press statements to win votes. Family members lie to each other to avoid conflict. Witnesses lie in court even in matters of life and death. Even in church, preachers twist the scriptures to their own end. At the end of the day, how can we discern what is really true? Who do can really believe? Given the potential for self-deception within ourselves, can we even trust ourselves?
(added at 6.39pm...)
I am only now beginning to appreciate the magnitude of what Christ meant when he said he is "the way, the truth and the life". In a world where the multitude of religions and philosophies compete for truth in the raging sea of ideas, my soul finds an anchor in Christ alone. His words, his way, his worldview, his salvation. In the midst of confusion and deception and chaos, I know His words will never pass away. For even if I cant trust myself, I can trust him.
(added at 6.39pm...)
I am only now beginning to appreciate the magnitude of what Christ meant when he said he is "the way, the truth and the life". In a world where the multitude of religions and philosophies compete for truth in the raging sea of ideas, my soul finds an anchor in Christ alone. His words, his way, his worldview, his salvation. In the midst of confusion and deception and chaos, I know His words will never pass away. For even if I cant trust myself, I can trust him.
Lord it's OK if you dont want to...
(Theology of powerlessness Part 3)
"Lord I pray for my friend to be healed from his cancer. But it is OK if you dont want to heal cos it is not your will. I can understand if you want my friend and his entire family to go through a period of testing so that their character can be built through their perseverance and brokenness. "
"Lord I pray that you will send revival to our church. But it is OK if you dont want to. I understand if you want to test and purify the church to build believers who will trust in you even though you are silent and don't answer prayers and even though we labour for years without fruit."
Sounds familiar? Some of us have even convinced ourselves that these are mature prayers of faith. Can we really kid ourselves that God is pleased with such prayers? We are so afraid to prayer for anything, giving God so many ways out for him not to answer so that we won't be disappointed if he doesn't. We weigh our prayers with so many qualifiers that our prayers hardly get off the ground on our tattered wings of faith before it crashes into the ditch of unbelief. Imagine the leper in Matthew chapter 8 saying to Jesus, "Lord if you are willing, You can make me clean...But it's OK if you dont want to. It's OK if you think I am scum and decide not to give me the time of day so that I can be forced to glorify you despite my pathetic existence." Do you think Jesus would have honoured such prayers? There is a reason why James wrote "But let him ask in faith, with no doubting for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord (1:6,7). There is a reason why Jesus said "assuredly I say to you if you have faith as a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain 'Move from here to there,' and it will move (Mat 17:20). When we pray prayers giving God a way out not to answer, these prayers do not glorify God. Here is where the lie is finally exposed... Many of us use theology as a cover up for our lack of faith. We have convinced ourselves that it is the will of God for us to suffer, to experience hardship and poverty and sickness and persecution and even bondage...simply because we are afraid that if we lack the faith to prayer for deliverance and fear that if we are disappointed, our faith will crumble. The irony is, there is nothing to crumble cos there is no faith to begin with! When faced with the option of healing and sickness, we are automatically trained to think God will chose sickness for us. When faced with the options of prosperity or poverty, we automatically think God will choose poverty for us. We lambast churches for having a 'prosperity' gospel but do not realise that we preach a 'poverty gospel'.
God loves us and wants to bless us and wants to give us freedom from the curse of sin, disease and poverty. Christ died to become a curse for us so that the blessings of Abraham may come upon the Gentiles in Christ Jesus (Gal 3:13,14) We make a mockery of his death by presuming that he still wants us to live under curses. It is true sometimes he does allow us to suffer for a time to build character but this is the exception rather than the norm. To assume we have to suffer all the time belies lack of faith and lack of understanding of grace. Enough is enough. It is time for the people of God to rise up and claim our inheritance in Christ. It is time for us to stop allowing the devil to rob us of our blessings by false theologies. For I am in Christ. Everything that is His he has given to me. And I am not going to let anyone take it away from me...
"Lord I pray for my friend to be healed from his cancer. But it is OK if you dont want to heal cos it is not your will. I can understand if you want my friend and his entire family to go through a period of testing so that their character can be built through their perseverance and brokenness. "
"Lord I pray that you will send revival to our church. But it is OK if you dont want to. I understand if you want to test and purify the church to build believers who will trust in you even though you are silent and don't answer prayers and even though we labour for years without fruit."
Sounds familiar? Some of us have even convinced ourselves that these are mature prayers of faith. Can we really kid ourselves that God is pleased with such prayers? We are so afraid to prayer for anything, giving God so many ways out for him not to answer so that we won't be disappointed if he doesn't. We weigh our prayers with so many qualifiers that our prayers hardly get off the ground on our tattered wings of faith before it crashes into the ditch of unbelief. Imagine the leper in Matthew chapter 8 saying to Jesus, "Lord if you are willing, You can make me clean...But it's OK if you dont want to. It's OK if you think I am scum and decide not to give me the time of day so that I can be forced to glorify you despite my pathetic existence." Do you think Jesus would have honoured such prayers? There is a reason why James wrote "But let him ask in faith, with no doubting for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord (1:6,7). There is a reason why Jesus said "assuredly I say to you if you have faith as a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain 'Move from here to there,' and it will move (Mat 17:20). When we pray prayers giving God a way out not to answer, these prayers do not glorify God. Here is where the lie is finally exposed... Many of us use theology as a cover up for our lack of faith. We have convinced ourselves that it is the will of God for us to suffer, to experience hardship and poverty and sickness and persecution and even bondage...simply because we are afraid that if we lack the faith to prayer for deliverance and fear that if we are disappointed, our faith will crumble. The irony is, there is nothing to crumble cos there is no faith to begin with! When faced with the option of healing and sickness, we are automatically trained to think God will chose sickness for us. When faced with the options of prosperity or poverty, we automatically think God will choose poverty for us. We lambast churches for having a 'prosperity' gospel but do not realise that we preach a 'poverty gospel'.
God loves us and wants to bless us and wants to give us freedom from the curse of sin, disease and poverty. Christ died to become a curse for us so that the blessings of Abraham may come upon the Gentiles in Christ Jesus (Gal 3:13,14) We make a mockery of his death by presuming that he still wants us to live under curses. It is true sometimes he does allow us to suffer for a time to build character but this is the exception rather than the norm. To assume we have to suffer all the time belies lack of faith and lack of understanding of grace. Enough is enough. It is time for the people of God to rise up and claim our inheritance in Christ. It is time for us to stop allowing the devil to rob us of our blessings by false theologies. For I am in Christ. Everything that is His he has given to me. And I am not going to let anyone take it away from me...
Where have all the miracles gone?
I once heard the story of a pastor who took a cab and when the cabbie found out that he was a pastor, said smugly, "my god can make me win 4D numbers, what can your God do?" Wherein the pastor inspiredly replied, "my God can take an evil person and make him into a good person." Reluctantly, the cabbie conceded, "that's quite impressive..." Do we really believe God can do that, ie. can change an evil person into a good person, can set a person free from bondage to addiction, whether drugs, lust, pornography, violence, alcohol? Why do we treat Christianity as just another moral code, leaving man to change himself with the bible as but a guide? Where have all the miracles gone? Has the power really dried up? Have all the wondrous supernatural gifts of the Holy Spirit like healing and miracles ceased? This is the theology of powerlessness PART 2...
I have come increasingly to realise that the church is trying to minister to a lost and hurting world with a watering can, sputtering and dripping in its effectiveness. Our fruit is so meagre, our efforts so unfruitful. I think it saddens God's heart when he sees us struggle like that. Defeated Christians trying to preach a defeated message to an even more defeated world. Instead of the pathetic watering can, we need to open our eyes to the His 'fire hose' of power. We need a God who is much bigger than the absent and powerless God of our theology of powerlessness. The problem with many churches is that we have come to believe that any talk of miracles, any talk of supernatural healing is of a bygone era. Some have erroneously taught that once the revelation of scripture was complete, the miracles and healings dried up. Such teachings borders on blasphemy of the Holy Spirit. Lets get our theology straight. Jesus himself promised that we will do greater things than he did. Reason number one for my extravagant belief - the same Holy Spirit in Jesus' day is the same Holy Spirit today. And He hasn't stopped working. Reason number two for my extravagant belief - the power of the Cross. You see, when Christ died, we died. When he rose, we rose to become a new creation. With every flesh tearing whip, with every excruciating nail, with every drop of blood shed, God took our shame, our addictions, our bondages, our cancer, our heart disease, our depression, our suicidal thoughts and KILLED it on the Cross. All our unworthiness, all our unloveliness, all our ugliness, He bore it as the wrath of the Father was poured out on him. That we might be the accepted and beloved of God. Dont you dare diminish his work, dont you dare downplay the effectiveness of what he has done. You see it has been done. We are free. To those who will only believe, who the humble in heart who will accept by simple faith, they will find the true salvation power of God. Please don't preach a Christianity that is nothing more than moral way of life. Cos that isn't Christianity. The Christianity I know is a Christianity of power, of a real and present salvation, of a God who HAS saved us from our sins and all its effects. Can your God really miraculously change an evil person to a good person? If he can't, then maybe you need another religion.
I have come increasingly to realise that the church is trying to minister to a lost and hurting world with a watering can, sputtering and dripping in its effectiveness. Our fruit is so meagre, our efforts so unfruitful. I think it saddens God's heart when he sees us struggle like that. Defeated Christians trying to preach a defeated message to an even more defeated world. Instead of the pathetic watering can, we need to open our eyes to the His 'fire hose' of power. We need a God who is much bigger than the absent and powerless God of our theology of powerlessness. The problem with many churches is that we have come to believe that any talk of miracles, any talk of supernatural healing is of a bygone era. Some have erroneously taught that once the revelation of scripture was complete, the miracles and healings dried up. Such teachings borders on blasphemy of the Holy Spirit. Lets get our theology straight. Jesus himself promised that we will do greater things than he did. Reason number one for my extravagant belief - the same Holy Spirit in Jesus' day is the same Holy Spirit today. And He hasn't stopped working. Reason number two for my extravagant belief - the power of the Cross. You see, when Christ died, we died. When he rose, we rose to become a new creation. With every flesh tearing whip, with every excruciating nail, with every drop of blood shed, God took our shame, our addictions, our bondages, our cancer, our heart disease, our depression, our suicidal thoughts and KILLED it on the Cross. All our unworthiness, all our unloveliness, all our ugliness, He bore it as the wrath of the Father was poured out on him. That we might be the accepted and beloved of God. Dont you dare diminish his work, dont you dare downplay the effectiveness of what he has done. You see it has been done. We are free. To those who will only believe, who the humble in heart who will accept by simple faith, they will find the true salvation power of God. Please don't preach a Christianity that is nothing more than moral way of life. Cos that isn't Christianity. The Christianity I know is a Christianity of power, of a real and present salvation, of a God who HAS saved us from our sins and all its effects. Can your God really miraculously change an evil person to a good person? If he can't, then maybe you need another religion.
Theology of powerlessness
It really pains me to hear some of the theology that is being preached in some churches today. Looking back at my life, I have come to realise that some of these destructive theologies have insidiously found their way into my life, robbing me of much of the joy and power and reality of Christianity. These are theological ideas that I would label 'theology of powerlessness.' Three of the three most damaging ideas are as follows, (1) mature Christians should not seek for spiritual experiences but rely only on the word of God for our faith; (2) mature Christians should not seek the gifts and power of the Holy Spirit as, like spiritual experiences, they are signs and we should not rely on signs for our faith; (3) mature Christians should come to accept suffering and poverty as an essential part of the Christian life and blessings and joy are for the immature. Surprised? Well chances are you've been had too. And the only person that isnt surprise is the devil cos these thoughts are exactly what he will have you believe. Those of you who have heard me teach will remember me constantly saying that the devil cannot take away what God has given you, he can only make you believe you dont have it. That is his aim, by introducing into our churches theologies of powerlessness. The problem with these theologies of powerlessness is that, like most lies, they sound right and holy. Let's call their bluff...
"Mature Christians should not seek for spiritual experiences but rely only on the word of God for our faith". Those who preach this often have a strong aversion and suspicion about the spiritual or the supernatural. They think that this is Christian but do not realise that such actually finds its roots in the anti-God, ultra-rationalistic society that we live in, one which exalts only what we can see and trashes anything supernatural as superstition. Yet the bible strongly affirms the existence of the supernatural dimension. God is spirit and those who worship him do so in spirit and in truth (Jn 4:24). The Holy Spirit testifies with our spirits that we are children of God (Rom 8:16). God reveals himself to us through his Spirit and not to our eyes or our minds (1 Cor 2:9,10). Here's the deal. Essentially any communication or interaction between our 'spirit man' and God who is Spirit takes place in the spiritual or supernatural dimension. To deny the existence or legitimacy of spiritual experiences is akin to denying the existence or legitimacy of sight. Without this medium of communication, we simply cannot 'see' God. Throughout the process of my own Christian growth, I have come to realise that there is a need for both the Word and the experience in the Christian life. Without the Word, we easily fall into error and folly. But without the spiritual experience, there is no reality or relationship in our Christianity. After all how do you relate with a God if he is only an idea and does not speak to us? I have had to battle my own super-rationalism demons, to realise that I had to stop trying to box and control God by getting him to conform to the boundaries of my mind and my sight. Until I came to the point of humble realisation that there are many things about God that are simply above me, only then was I in a position to enter His world and experience His reality. You see my friend, Christianity without spiritual reality is dead Christianity, of those having a 'form of godliness but denying its power' (2 Tim 3:5) Then we wonder why so many young people in our churches who have grown up in Christianity eventually conclude that Christianity and God isnt real and fall away from church. I have come to experience the kingdom of God that is not just in word but in power (1 Cor 4:20). Maybe it is time we all find that out for ourselves.
More on the other two theologies tomorrow...
"Mature Christians should not seek for spiritual experiences but rely only on the word of God for our faith". Those who preach this often have a strong aversion and suspicion about the spiritual or the supernatural. They think that this is Christian but do not realise that such actually finds its roots in the anti-God, ultra-rationalistic society that we live in, one which exalts only what we can see and trashes anything supernatural as superstition. Yet the bible strongly affirms the existence of the supernatural dimension. God is spirit and those who worship him do so in spirit and in truth (Jn 4:24). The Holy Spirit testifies with our spirits that we are children of God (Rom 8:16). God reveals himself to us through his Spirit and not to our eyes or our minds (1 Cor 2:9,10). Here's the deal. Essentially any communication or interaction between our 'spirit man' and God who is Spirit takes place in the spiritual or supernatural dimension. To deny the existence or legitimacy of spiritual experiences is akin to denying the existence or legitimacy of sight. Without this medium of communication, we simply cannot 'see' God. Throughout the process of my own Christian growth, I have come to realise that there is a need for both the Word and the experience in the Christian life. Without the Word, we easily fall into error and folly. But without the spiritual experience, there is no reality or relationship in our Christianity. After all how do you relate with a God if he is only an idea and does not speak to us? I have had to battle my own super-rationalism demons, to realise that I had to stop trying to box and control God by getting him to conform to the boundaries of my mind and my sight. Until I came to the point of humble realisation that there are many things about God that are simply above me, only then was I in a position to enter His world and experience His reality. You see my friend, Christianity without spiritual reality is dead Christianity, of those having a 'form of godliness but denying its power' (2 Tim 3:5) Then we wonder why so many young people in our churches who have grown up in Christianity eventually conclude that Christianity and God isnt real and fall away from church. I have come to experience the kingdom of God that is not just in word but in power (1 Cor 4:20). Maybe it is time we all find that out for ourselves.
More on the other two theologies tomorrow...
What do we get from going to church?
What do we get from going to church? This seems an almost sacrilegious question to ask. After all don't we go to church to worship God? Somehow I feel that is only partly true for many of us. Most of us start with this question - what is in it for me? Is there something I will get back or something I will benefit from from going to church? The truth is many view church like a kind of 'service provider'. (After all the call it a church 'service' dont they?) We decide on whether to go because of the quality of the service the church provides to us, whether the worship is of the style we like, whether the sermons are to our taste, whether the people make us feel at home etc. Our offering is the 'service charge' we pay. So when we feel one church provides us better service than another, we up and go. After all why stay in a church where the 'service' is bad?
This is a complex question that needs to be broken down so that a satisfactory answer can be provided to those to venture to ask. What is the purpose of church? Ephesians tells us that the purpose of the church is to so that believers can help each other attain (1) unity in the faith and (2) the knowledge of God (Eph 4:12,13). The 'service' of the church is therefore to help the believers grow in faith and knowledge of God. It must therefore permissible for us to ask the difficult question - is my church helping me grow in faith and knowledge of God? Do I feel my faith increasing everytime I go to church? Do I enter into a deeper revelation and relationship with God after each service? This I feel is the 'gold' standard to which all of us who venture to run a church or youth ministry or small group must answer. If the answer is 'No', can we blame our congregation or youths from going elsewhere?
But there is a further complexity to the question and the answer of the business of church. Earlier in verses 11 & 12, Paul writes that different roles have been given to each member of the church to minister to others so that the church can grow. The cutting reality is that all of us, not just those running the church, are responsible for contributing to making the church or youth ministry or small group a place where we can grow in faith and the knowledge of God. It just isn't the responsibility of the pastor, the youth small group leader or the sunday school teacher. It is our responsibility. So where does that leave us? It is right for us to judge our church and ask the question, is it helping me grow in the faith and in relationship with God? If the answer to that is 'No', the solution is not to up and go to another church. The next step is to ask ourselves, are we contributing our gifts and fulfilling our role to help each other grow in faith and relationship with God? You see, there is no perfect church. As someone once said, if you find a perfect church, don't go to it cos you will spoil it. Church isn't perfect. It is run is imperfect people who will stumble and fall and sometimes will let us down. But if we have to faith to give our five small loaves and two fishes, then maybe we will see some miracles happen...
This is a complex question that needs to be broken down so that a satisfactory answer can be provided to those to venture to ask. What is the purpose of church? Ephesians tells us that the purpose of the church is to so that believers can help each other attain (1) unity in the faith and (2) the knowledge of God (Eph 4:12,13). The 'service' of the church is therefore to help the believers grow in faith and knowledge of God. It must therefore permissible for us to ask the difficult question - is my church helping me grow in faith and knowledge of God? Do I feel my faith increasing everytime I go to church? Do I enter into a deeper revelation and relationship with God after each service? This I feel is the 'gold' standard to which all of us who venture to run a church or youth ministry or small group must answer. If the answer is 'No', can we blame our congregation or youths from going elsewhere?
But there is a further complexity to the question and the answer of the business of church. Earlier in verses 11 & 12, Paul writes that different roles have been given to each member of the church to minister to others so that the church can grow. The cutting reality is that all of us, not just those running the church, are responsible for contributing to making the church or youth ministry or small group a place where we can grow in faith and the knowledge of God. It just isn't the responsibility of the pastor, the youth small group leader or the sunday school teacher. It is our responsibility. So where does that leave us? It is right for us to judge our church and ask the question, is it helping me grow in the faith and in relationship with God? If the answer to that is 'No', the solution is not to up and go to another church. The next step is to ask ourselves, are we contributing our gifts and fulfilling our role to help each other grow in faith and relationship with God? You see, there is no perfect church. As someone once said, if you find a perfect church, don't go to it cos you will spoil it. Church isn't perfect. It is run is imperfect people who will stumble and fall and sometimes will let us down. But if we have to faith to give our five small loaves and two fishes, then maybe we will see some miracles happen...
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